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How Does It Feel To Be Heart-broken?

How does it feel to be heart-broken. I have this friend that a heart-broken recently, he feels like the World is crumbling on me". I really don't know, but am curious to know. I really don't want to xperience it @ all.

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Everybody at a point in time will experience heartbreak

Its just a normal growing up thing - it just makes us stronger.

I believe that what doesnt kill us only makes us stronger because we need to be in a position to use our experiences as well as a ministry, use it to speak to people going through the same thing.

It seems terrible now, but joy will surely come in the morning - just keep living, it will get better.

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exactly.

good news is: you recover. But before you do, its one of the most intense kinds of hurting in this world.

being heartbroken or breaking someone's heart is not good. But I guess sometimes these things can't be avoided.

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It's not a good experience,believe me?It seems like it's the end of the world.Let's not talk about that.

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heartbreak can be avoided but no one can defeat loneliness i love heartbreak the fact that it doesn't kill me makes me stronger emotionally

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Heartbreak is the worst feeling in this world,its painful and it hurts at the very core of the soul,infact there are no exact words to explain it with.it leaves you feeling bitter and all hell bent on revenge and hurting the next innocent person that comes your way.its the feeling that leads most people into manic depression and at times SUICIDE!!!.

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Heart-Broken, if u ve been hurt or betryed by somebody u trusted before,i want u to understand one thing;no matter man does to u ,God ll cause all things to work out for ur good.Focus on God.To err is human but to forgive is devine.witout God, it is impossible to let go of hurts&move on in life because ur emotions ll always rear up whenever u remember the person or incident.you ve to allow God to help u,let His joy be ur strength.

Note:The hurt feelings can be so intense that if we are not careful,everything else in our lives might grind to a halt.

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the closest i ever came close to experiencing it was when i broke with my ex. 3 yrs later my mum still talks about the pain in her eyes . . . there's probably nothing i regret more than that singular action . . .

That experience taught me a serious lesson . . .

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the easiest way to explain it . . . . . . it feels like a someone's cutting your heart to pieces. it's actually a physical pain. you actually feel your heart ripping to shreds and in my case I had trouble breathing or making sense of a lot of things.

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Men, heart break is no joke.

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i quite agree with u dat time can heal it bt wot of a situation where even afta over a year u cant seem 2 gt over it .wot do u do?

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I Really know how it feels having experience one lately,

but i think wat matters how well you come out of it,

like the saying goes it is not how many times you fall

but your ability to rise each time you fall.

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heart break is not something u will wish

for you enemy,as bad as it may look,the

truth is time will always heal it,but the healing process

depends on d individual,if its over,accept it,take responsibity

the truth is you come out of the expirence better,and expirenced

also,the thing is people are scared of rejection and they they dont

want 2 admit that is over.your friend will be fine,time has a way of

healing things,i have being there i can tell you.

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Anybodi who has ever loved will go through that process of a broken heart. A broken heart hurts like HELL, and no one is immune to it, unless your heart be stone.

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It's a bad experience.All you think of is vengeance, revenge,bitterness,malice,complex, ~.Librans are usually lucky here.Before a relationship heads for the cleaners,an intelligent man or woman dumps first before being dumped.

I heard ladies are worst hit

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dont pray to experience it my dear. Sometimes you feel you'd be better dead and alive.

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wait till u experience am.

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Here is my list:

> i was carrin my phone evry where thinkin she'll call me back- i mean evrywhere

> i found myself in park alone, not knowin how i got there

>was nt feelin hungry even though i really love eating

>could not concentrate @ work and its like i was seein her face on the computer screen evrytime

>going through all the old text she had sent me, even the 'not so nice' text

>wonderin where the hell did it all go wrong

>totally broke down when i heard from a friend that she's was now dating some new guy

But at the end when you've gone through all the heartache and you meet someone else, you'll feel like beating yourself, thinkin y d hell did you waste all those time feelin sorry for yourself

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It is very tragic wen u are in such situation infact you feel d whole world is coming to an end nothing seems to be working again for u.bt as soon as u encounter such, move very close to god and pray that u be healed .

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It make you so weak emotionally, you just feel rejected and dejected. You feel like a faliure. you feel like dying.You feel cheated, So thats why you have to be very sure before you fall in love.Make your partner keep re assuring you of his or her undivided attention and love.With thi syou will know if youtr partner is trully in love or just playing games.People become heartbroken because there was actually no true love at first .

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please view this existing topic at below:

Do People Really Die of Broken Hearts?

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-110628.0.html

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Sorry didn't answer it well

Felt V.bad

Felt V.alone

Felt Used.

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you think of those foolish things you did for the lost partner,

and you feel you have been used,

boy, e de pain!

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My dear it's not a nice experience but it is best experienced than imagined. For the first time in my life I experienced it(Nov 2007), it was not funny at all but I thank God for it. I learnt a lot esp to be more tolerant and treat people better.

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