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How Does It Feel To Be Rejected?

have you been rejected before? how does it feel to be rejected? I hate to be rejected by a lady!

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some people love you for no reason just as some people will hate you for no reason. i have seen both. but if i find myself going through such wire, i allow that feeling to burn for some mins just to learn my mistake if there is any,then sit back and view life from the angle of being dead,spend time with people that cares for me and things that matters to me before i know it i am back to my person again and i try not to bear any grudges in my heart, no matter how worst things get for me i always try to have it at the back of my mind that the defeat doesn't really worth taking the best off me.

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diyo ure right dere girl

radiant even if you never loved the guy or you were the one always calling the shots in the r/l its hard for someone to reject you . .

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oooh how much it bleeds!

it feels good knowing that you actually tried.

Your choice to approach outweighs the rejection. Refusal to approach a lady by talking one's self out of it leads to the development of an unsettled conscience infected with 'what-ifs'.

How one chooses to react to the rejection is a different narrative. For me it's like adrenaline, the pain is such a sudden rush for me. lol.

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the kind of ladies i talk to get level and i don't go inform of r/ship or anything. there is a way to go about certain things and you wont be rejected. ones one 10,000 naira in a bet. the bet was to talk to a girl people say has a long history of rejecting guys. i did my thing and she fell. is all about attitude and xter.

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i have the same view and experince. we all have spiritual reflexes that tells us what we can conquer and what we cant. We can also "learn" to conquer the girl we want if we really want to and study the person. it has happened to me and i won where they said angels even fear to hi !!!

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u feel bad of course, but u know u win some u loose some. that just the way it is . If u aint ever been rejectd then maybe u aint trying enough or ur just plain lucky.

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I do not think I agree with you guys here. iice is just saying that that should be the best way to handle rejection.I agree with her on that.But that was not the question,, How would you handle it?I mean when sb you really love decides to shove you aside, a nybody will feel dejected .Even a very cold iice

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@iice

Nice one but imagine some dude that just not seem to recognise ur presence,

and you are probably all emotions for him,or he starts probably a teaser then gets cocky,

how would u react?

I am sure we've all had fantasies about someone that doesn't even know about us.

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It does hurt,sometimes brings down your self confidence but

the best part of it to me is that it becomes a challenge.Probably

brings out the best in me.

@IICE

Hi suppose ur are female so how does it feel to be rejected by a man?

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If u have neva been rejected then u can neva learn

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Learn how to make rejection your friend. and you will learn a lot from it.

is not a big deal to be rejected. even Alpha males get rejected atimes.

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To be rejectea by anyone is not really a good feeling.It's like killing someone but not using a knife.

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i dunno. havent tested it yet but from what i see here, it must suck for sure.

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Most times rejection does sting a bit, especially if this is

someone you have been eyeing for a while. If you finally

make your move and you're rejected, it'll sting.

But there are times when you talk to a lady (say at a club) casually

and she rejects. This doesn't hurt as much.

P.S. Just because you carry yourself a certain way OR you got game

doesn't mean you can never be rejected. I disagree with that.

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it feels like S H I T

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mr. don , how things, ur diction tells me off a guy rushing for those low girls who don;t coz any prop, any man can do that, i mean facing the real chicks, hot and rich, take that challange

could get 80percent but not all if at all u man enuf

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dat is not good. just dont go so wild.

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hmmmm, dont cross the boundary.

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looks like u know me too well but u dont know another part of me. use your imagination.

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shut up there man cuzz not eerone plays the game with the exact same skillz. go figure.

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boyz what ar u trying to say by neva being rejected,even Pres.Bush Walker has experienced this, STOP BEING A NIAVE TYPE

IT TEACHES U ALOT ABOUT URSELF AND THE OPPOSITE SEX

ITS A MATTER OF MATURITY

IT DOESn,t kill

I really got pissed once after rejecting a girl who gave me everything to one goldigga who rejected me

I learned a lot

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Lmao, am i supposed to get wit every guy that spits game at me? Really some of the things u guys say are like wow. At least i feel guilty afterwards, so im not such a bad person lol

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@walelead

do i? damn, i didnt know. but they dont complain cuzz they fall. oops.

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Dondele, I totally agree, its all about attitude and character and you have it in excess.

Can i get a witness?

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the kind of ladies i talk to get level and i dont go inform of r/ship or anything. there is a way to go about certain things and you wont be rejected. ones one 10,000 naira in a bet. the bet was to talk to a girl ppl say has a long  history of rejecting guys. i did my thing and she fell. is all about attitude and xter.

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besides,there is nothing to be ashamed of.Its a normal thing to be rejected,its part of life

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Hmmm,I would like to know the kind of ladies you talk to,don.Well,I have tasted rejection before and I tell you,it is not funny.

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nope, i havent and i aint never gon be rejected by a lady cuzz i know the kind of ladies i talk to.

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Rejection from a lady is not a problem, it happens all the time, it happens to the best of us.

if you dont suffer rejection, you wont learn.

ok, i only said that to make you feel better, ure the only ones that suffer rejection *pities both of you*.

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