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How Long Can One Stay A Virgin And Still Stay Sane?

Now I'm not referring to the ones hidden in convents and seminaries all their lives. Hmm, on a second thought, them too.

In a sexually aware world like ours today where nearly everybody has seen Unclad pictures if not Indecency; where nearly every clique in junior secondary is already talking lots about the opposite sex and heightening the suspense before they eventually do it, how long then can one stay a virgin and stay sane even amidst pressure from virtually every corner?

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I think the poster has done a good work by starting this thread.I honestly wish i am still a virgin,come to think of it what's in afterall when you are still going to do it someday even with pride and honour.

I call on us all to help return this rare virtu especiall our girls let them know that they can still wait.And marriage is best when you give it to your man undefilled.

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I'm still trudging through OP's question trying to understand how virginity could posibly make one go nuts.

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26 years, after then cobwebs will take over from there.

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i don go wash my "Kporo"

i don turn virgin again

afterall how una go take know who be virgin or not.

i no know woman oo

infact who be woman sef??

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Virginity indeed. We all know  the latest fraud in town

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@Mustay

LOLOLOL

eyah

@Some nansense people

Believe what you wanna, shior!!

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@  gamine

I read your color 9 now. The silly scummer also sent me that message. NAncy Adisaa

Infact na the person be this:

higee45

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Not trying to undermind you Gamine but, i really don't have any of these so called symptoms.

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The poo aint oxygen abi?

just wait till your symptoms start calling.

Rehab will not help you then

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Forever.

D poo ain't oxygen.

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Im no expert

im telling it as i see it.

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okay, if u say so u are the expert.

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Sorry i cant.

The whole thing suits you, more than a glove if i may add

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You are even worse off, your symptoms include lying

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gamine, your are v.v.v.v.v.v wrong b' cos i am 37 and a virgin and loving every min (sec) of it and not showing any sign of all ur symptoms

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Its the same for all virgins

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Nice breakdown.

But can u really claim it's the same with everybody?

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What has sanity got to do wiv virginity?

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@Poster

infat,

You cannot stay sane.

lemme give you symptoms sef.

A Virgin has the following;

Appears nervous, always a little sweat here n there

Vibrations in upper and lower body when near a member of the opposite sex.

Thoughts are on nothing but doing it, which causes mental instability

ceases to function well at home, at work and in church/mosque

this symptoms will all lead to Chronic Mental Corruption/Constipation/emulsification

and the person will now be called INSANE.

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@ Topic,

am 25 years old and still a virgin. Still going strong. There will be alot of times where temptation comes in but its not impossible for a person to have that strong will power to overcome it.

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I guess the next time i bump into him i will have to ask him why it took him two years to build up the nerve to ask me if i was on my period that day. His words were something like were you coming on or coming off because it was just a spot in my bed.

So if two years later that is what he thought then i am sure that is what he thought back then but was too scared/embarrassed to ask me about it. He said he just cleaned the bed sheet out by hand so his mom would not find out.

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excately cuz if u were, u would be wearing a pad or sumthing, sum ppl r just plain dumb

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he was 16 and had never been with a virgin before.

When we were talking he confessed that althu he talked a good game back then the reality was that he had only been with one girl before and did not have that much sexual experience.

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That is true but I would have liked to save it for me.  For the moral conviction that it would have shown i had.

My parents tried their best but when my sister died my already disfuctional family just fell apart and next thing you know I done talked my way into giving it to some guy who did not even know i was a virgin until 2 years later when he had enough nerve to ask me jokingly if i was on my period the first night we had sex.  His jaw hit the ground when i told him that was my cherry.

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I'm jst wonderin y a guy won't realise yhu're a V on dat day

nd finally realised after two yrs.

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hope u dont mind my asking?u have a step daughter?as in from ur present husband?

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All the way thru Uni at least i hope.

My step daughter is seeing too many of her classmates having babies and baby daddy drama. This has scared the poor girl crazy, not to talk of her father, myself and her mother always talking to her about maintaining her virtue.

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Forever. Being a virgin or choosing to remain celibate has to be a choice.

Its when its no longer a choice that you can begin to question one's in sanity.

hahahahaha.  Funnny poster.

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hahaha

see question ooooooooo

Virginity na Hinsanity

i never knowww

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i never knew virginity means insanity

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Re: How Long Can Some Nairalanders Stay Without a Virgin Thread And Be Sane?

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for as long as you don't have a dick.

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Gamine, i guess we are both sane cos we are not more virgin oh

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To save it for your husband.

I wish I had.

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@sistawoman

Even after saving it sistawoman,some men still don't appreciate it

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