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how long do i have to wait?, fellow landers, i've been dating a particular guy for the past 7yrs now, and rite now i have so many suitors coming for me, but i really dont know what i wnt, am so much inlove with this guy that i dont want to let go, pls i need ur advice on what to do, both of us are out of school but still strugling hard to get a good job

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@Bizl4Rizl

Thanks for ur advice

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Wait! Simple, you have waited for 7 years, whats a couple more? I believe you have something special with this guy that you wont get with anyone else. . . these other suitors, what do you know about them, how long have you known them - the saying "the devil you know. . . " is apt in this circumstance.

I believe you are going thru some bumpy time and its quite natural but note that its just a phase it will pass away.

Work at it, TALK to him (very important!) Things will work out, trust me.

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@ frank

he wants me to wait

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You are still 25 and not 35, you are still young so try not to bother yourself too much about marriage, it will happen at the right time for you.

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what does he think about the future for both of you?

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don't know about other pple. . . but I think 7yrs is rather a long time . . . then again, considering ur age (25), u're still young and gots ur life ahead of u so why the rush?

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was goin to ask but I fot lines of advise wld be more appreciated. You'r spot on.

Dumpin a dude cz u fink u'v hit the jackpot.

Be warned, grass not alwz greener.

@ Cadet, did this question come to ur mind? I bet it didnt,

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what is even more puzzling is the unspoken idea that all the woman needs is just find a fellow who is ready to marry her NOW.

Is anyone asking what Keenee herself has to offer any potential suitor?

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woman palava.

@poster, You'v cm a long way, Grass is not alwz greener @ ova end. Do not despise the days of little beginning. It cms dwn to luck, keep prayin cz you neva knw and remember, wht goes round cms around. If u dump the dude cz u think you'v hit a jackpot, , I hope the green grass at the ova end doesnt go brown.

al the best sha,

Grass not alwz greener. Be warned

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stick with him and set a timeline towards marriage. i don't know why women are always so keen on marriage as if some title would change anything about the relationship

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It's more about the understanding you guys have. I have seen couples who have stayed that long and got married. It's not always the case. But if there is a bond/understanding and a connectivity btw you guys, it will work out. You know, you should have this talk with him. Sometimes, it takes sharing your fears and thoughts to your partner to make them realise somethings.

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hey thanks guys, u all are really wonderful, but the truth of the matter is, ,this guy has become part of me, u can imagine being with someone from year one to final year and till date, i was barely 18 yrs when i met him and now am 25, we are more than lovers, think thats the reason i feel i wont be able to cope with someone else, talking about his idea 2wards marriage, he reminds me every now and then to hang on,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,but u guys know as they say" women are just like flowers" plsssss shld i still hang on with this guy or move on with my life

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if you met him when you were twenty, that means by now you are at least 27.

if i were your brother i wil tell you to start getting him to commit you or you move on with your life

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I must say, u guys are really wonderful, i feel u all, babyx u are the bomb, Eclairs, i appreciate ur advice, iice u are also wonderful, i feel much better sincerely,

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