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How Long Does It Take?

Hi Guys,

Just curious on how long does it take for a relationship to stabilize?

I am of the opinion that the first few months are always not too deep interms of ways/what u guys disscuss, u both are still trying to impress one another.

So my qtion is, at what stage, possibly month do u open up completely to your partner n u guys stop forming(being urself)?

opinion please!

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So if you dont love her now, you never will.

There is no need troubling yourself asking questions that dont need answer.

You already have the answer to your question. OR?

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Man Be sincere with urself, this love fantasy shits is becoming much. I don't know what u xpect people to tell u here. this thread is useless cos its not helping u either.

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sample am 1st, u fit fall in luv @ 2nd sight,afterall d taste is in d eating

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sample the girl first, You might start liking her from there

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It can even take a minuite

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Another NOLLYWOOD blockbuster

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In my opinion if you dont like her, you cant love her.

Does she like you?

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tell us why you dont like her, then we can start from there. dont say you dont know why you dont like her, look deep down at her and find a reasn why you dont like her. isnt she sexy? neat? well mannered? just what dont u like about her?

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Poor you, this is a difficult situation ooo.

If you no like person,2 years no go make you like am.

Na wa oo some parents self.

As for i dey shine my eyes for long before i fall in love.

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If you don't like her I don't think it will happen. Liking is the starting point,

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Wat about you, Hw long does it take u 2 fall in love?

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it depends on one's level of patience, tolerance and maturity.

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Check out existing threads at below:

Is 4 Years Too Long For Courtship?

www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-91599.0.html

How Long Should Courtship Last?

www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-921.0.html

Is Dating Someone For 1 Year Too Soon To Get Married?

www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-7591.0.html

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Different folks, different strokes.

Some take 6 months

Some takes 1 years

Some takes 3 years

As long as for strong relationship between two people connect that is based on:

[list]

[li]Trust[/li]

[li]Spirituality[/li]

[li]4 Characters[/li]

[list]

[li]Humility[/li]

[li]Kindness[/li]

[li]Responsibility[/li]

[li]Happiness[/li]

[/list]

[li]Personal Hygiene[/li]

[li]Communication Skill[/li]

[li]Personal Habits[/li]

[li]Strong Connections[/li]

[list]

[li]Good Chemistry and Compatibility[/li]

[li]Shared Common Interest[/li]

[li]Shared Common Life Goal[/li]

[li]Deeper Emotional[/li]

[li]Sexual Compatibility[/li] (refer the knowledge of sexuality)

[li]Agreed Financial Obligations/Compromise Equally[/li]

[/list]

[/list]

FOR MORE DETAILS: http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-133197.0.html

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depends on the individual

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It depends on the individual. There's no standard time.

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Blad,

Could date for 3yrs and the relationship is still not stabilised. I gs it depends on your degree of patience cause sometimes stabilising a relationship could take forever.

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those in relationship should be able to answer this questions.

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yeah both guyz n ladies

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just for guys or can women speak on this subject

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