I know there are threads that mayhave brush on this subject, but I'm looking for more. I've been dating a woman for 3 months and within the last couple of weeks have realized that I'm in love. I haven't told her though because I don't think she's ready to hear it. Can I REALLY be in love after only 3 months? How long does it take YOU to fall in love? Does it vary? As a side question, if you're in love but don't know that your partner is too, do you risk her/his running by telling her/him?