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Am really tired of waiting for that special man. I've waited, prayed and fasted. Yet, it seems like i'm never going to find him. It's like there is a curse somewhere which is delaying my meeting the special one for me. Am good looking, educated, humble, independent, well behave and i still don't get it!! I've been in few relationships though but these relationships only lasted few months.It's either i found out he's cheating or they made me believe they don't want to marry a woman as goodlooking as i am cos they are scared of sharing her with someone else after marriage and i asked myself if they didn't see me before they courted me. I've been invited by some friends to visit some white garmet churches, alfas and stuff but i just couldn't go to such extent. Pls y'all i need your advices and words of encouragement, pls if yu know yu have nothing positive to say pls don't say anything, thanks.

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17inches long >>>>>> Me

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@Bola,

Ok i was only trying to get ur attention dear,am kinda missing chatting with u.Hope u are doing great and u had a wonderful weekend,i was gonna call u only i dont have ur number.Anyway,i will be waiting for ur buzz.Have a lovely day at work.Cheers.

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@Bola,

Ok i was only trying to get ur attention dear,am kinda missing chatting with u.Hope u are doing great and u had a wonderful weekend,i was gonna call u only i dont have ur number.Anyway,i will be waiting for ur buzz.Have a lovely day at work.Cheers.

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Hi Emeka, how is your day going? You sounded as if i've been avoiding chatting with you which of course is untrue. Actually, it's easier to respond to threads and get bac to work than chatting which of cox might distract me and besides, i can't as well tell you every 10 mins "stay put, be right back". Will buzz you when am less busy. I hope you understand.

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@bola,

I know u definately get this, its me emeka and i'll really love 2 chat with u on messager.Kindly buzz me as soon as u are less busy.

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@Poater, He is on his way, just make sure you came back here and tell us all about him as soon as he arrives.

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@adaybola i sent u a mail just now can u just go through de mail and get back 2 me eagerly waiting 4 ur reply

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@ Cindy, lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really don't know what to say but am very very happy for you. Atimes, we have to make our own destiny and you just did that girlfriend, Congrants my dear.

Well, thanks to all who showed interest in me, am really really flattered. Actually, with the way things are going i must say God has such a beautiful plan for me. I'm not desperate at all, am just waiting eagerly unto him cos i know he's the perfect planner.

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Sings on and on with hands while leaving Girlfriend Adahbola's thread.

Bye Idowu Baby, Bye Mayflowa

Glances back at Mayflowa

Did you listen to the music I sent to you dear?    "Isn't Usher wonderful in that rendition?"

There goes my ba-b-y-yyyyyyyyy-------------Ooooh  Aaaah (with her two hands pointed leftward at the door while exiting) --------------Look at y-o-u-u-uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

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Idowuogbo, so you are supporting Cindrella. You wont go about life partner this way even if age isnt on ur hand, would you? At this rate, her new found sweethrt wont stay for long. Idowuogbo, am sure you understand my point. Moderacy is the key to romance. She must understand this!

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@Mayflowa

My brother if you read my post well, I wasn't looking for a man to befriend, date, move around or sleep around with. I love children very much and needed to have a family of my own, now I can't have children lying on my bed shedding tears of loneliness all the days of my life---can I? I did the noble thing here my brother. I understand how you feel about it but if I have no child when I get real old----the much I can get from people here is pity if in the future I unhappily post a thread reading "Childless, please comfort me"(God forbid that).

Now my shoulders are held high enough to receive criticisms like yours, you even exercised the golden right only you men have saying that you will not marry an open person like me and I am happy for you for having such a right to go out there and marry when you need a family like I do. That right I do not have sweetheart and I only humbly came looking yet you are being mad at me. Don't be mad at me okay Baby.

All the same I am still singing my song, nothing can take my songs away from me---------there goes my baby-y-y-y-y-y,you don't know how good it feels to call you my Babe,there goes my baby-y-yyyyyyyy-------Ooooh Aaah Look at y-ou-u-u-u-u

Why don't you listen to it and let it make your evening

You will love it. Cindrella sings on and on ------ Oooh Aaahhhh---Look at you-u-u-u-uuuuuuu

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eeyah! don't give up woman, u'll find that special somebody.

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Idowu sweetie, thanks for that prophesy of yours. Quadruplets!!!!-------Oooh Aaah Look at themmmmmmmmmmmmm

Somebody shout! Alleluiahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh -------there goes my Babies(my sweetie and the quadruplets inclusive)------Oooh Aaaah I gat themmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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Poster,i am a young guy with such qualities you mentioned.I really appreciates the fact that you mentioned you can pray and fast.As a child of God i would like to meet a lady that knows God and serve God.I am planning to move down to Nigeria soon to settle down for marriage sometime this year.What part of Nigeria are you from?i am hoping to hear from you and please am serious to get married soon.If you care for chatting here is my e-mail address,Wallece07@yahoo.com

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@poster.brave heart,you will find your man.begin by droping all the unmanageable offending characters,if you have any as no one is perfect.start going out.the palms food court is excellent place to chill,go out in company of a gurl,someone who understands,that you can confid in.it won't be long.

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This Cindrella is not of the best attitude. I can never marry you with a hundred million takings!In my opinion, U r too forward, zealous and unwomanly(sorry i have to say this). Please poster do not hobnob with her. Of course, she will lead astray

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Why don't you enjoy my music girlfriend

Usher was sending me to another planet with that song of his

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It's worth the wait! No need to sell yourself to the next available guy! The patient dog . . .

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My people make una come-o-o-o-o. E be like say I don finally find him -o-o-o. Who said I should keep my mouth shut and die of loneliness? He was here all along in Nairaland looking too, if I did not look tell me how we would have found each other.Praise the Lord somebody!

I picked up courage and squared up my shoulder when I could not bear the loneliness and Baby blues (yes you heard me right!) and came looking for him here in Nairaland. I opened up threads inviting him to come to me(James Ingram) because I don't want to die waiting for him and----there goes my Baby(Usher))--------------------there he goes, there he goes-----

You can read the rest in the link below

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-472894.0.html

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Unfortunatly, some people don't understand English. It's always best to keep some nasty opinions to yourself especially when it's absolutely not needed. So, i wanna meet someone special to spend the rest of my life with, how does that affect you?

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@ poster pls check your character first, then you have to go out to socialize a lot, no man will come knock your door this days, bacos all ladies are outside both the good and bad, this forum is also helping you as well. God will speed dat man to u soonest IJN.

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come see, u babes stop picking on my new padi, wats wrong wit u?

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this is y guys come here n rant about BS, so ur thirty n uve not been dragged down the isle, so wat

get a life n stop yapping on,,,,,,ur continious prayer might b driving the dudes out the door, u prob need to chill d eff out

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Cindrella don carry this matter put ontop head oh!

@Poster: Brave of u to do this. . . .NL could be a good place to meet people. . .but me sha, I cannot tow this line. . .

On the other hand, I'm beginning to realise that the "Singles Market" is quite a large one, business wise!

I know tons of men looking for wives and tons of women looking for husbands.

Rather than hook them up for free, I fit start to collect fees oh!

Running a match making agency no go bad at all. . .just that these 9ja people sef, their mentality no be am.

But some people are already fleecing money off desperate singles these days in the name of "Singles Seminars"

Make una beware oh!

Poster, I sha wish you luck in ur search oh!

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@Saintp

Yes oo dear, is it not the union of two people(marriage) that made you yourself come into being? We humans don't really understand some mathematics that God worked to keep his creation intact. He knows that if we don't have these longings for partners and the baby blues that goes wt it that humans will not replenish his earth for him, so brother it is the handiwork of God. I have even come to realize lately that guys have baby blues too so let us ladies be ladies here. Come to think of it did you not read what adahbola said here? that if you have no sweet words of encouragement you should not comment. Now say something a little nice before you leave us ladies to chill and lime unless you want to lime with us------smile

@adahbola

Nice to meet you girlfriend, I gat your back. Will attend to some chores now and come online later for us to chat okay.

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Babes and marriage. Na waa ooooo

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i have strong feeling for this babe may help me

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laughing hard! I hope so too.

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go girl, but if u ever need them beaten up, i know some boys who can help (just hope am not one of the guys sha)

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Appr8 that, thanks. Wherever they are, i don't give a crocodile axx! But am gud, very gud, am living good.

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am just trying to look out for ur well being

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U r soo curious!! It's ok, i can handle that. What about them?

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ok the ones that made u start this topic inko?

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Smiling, unfortinately i don't know all guys so i won't be able to give you the appropriate answer to that question.

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i hope us wicked guys have stopped being wicked

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Am gud, 10x for asking.

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oooooo, my bad!!!!!!!!

i honestly didnt know, now i know better.

so hw r u poster?

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Quit playing! U know am the poster, don't you?

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ur laughing baaa!!!!!!!!!!u dont want her problem to go away

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Hi Cindy, am laughing really hard right now!! I love your personality! You are soo sweet, honest and caring. Alot of people especially ladies pretend alot and they come down here to judge others like you. If i wanna have a friend here, then it has to be you Cindy. Thanks, you sound soo much like a big sis.

Delagasky is married with kids and funny enough, he's someone i've met on several occassions. We talked and he made me feel soo better about the whole situation. We are just good friends now and i appreciate his friendship.

My email id is adebolafalode@yahoo.com, thanks Cindy. Sure, will send you a mail rightaway.

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Girlfriend, I just talked to Mr. Hot dude for you send me your e-mail and I wl give him so that he can contact you okay. Gdnite, gotta sleep now

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Adaybola, I talked to this other very hot Dude for you. I don't know whether he is hooked up, he will contact you if he hasn't. Come let me whisper something to you, He is heartbreakingly handsome and dashing, (don't tell anybody).

We only chatted once and went our separate ways. You two may start something tangible, who knows. I only hope he is not hooked yet so he can talk to you.

Here is his thread,

http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-467126.0.html

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