pleaze give me advice
I AM SORRY BUT THIS IS NOT SUPPOSE TO BE A QUESTION. I KNOW PEOPLE LEARN FROM PAST RELATIONSHIPS, BUT ARE YOU TO DECIDE HOW MANY GUYS YOU WANT TO GO OUT WITH. PLEASE JUST LISTEN TO YORSELF, LETS SAY WHEN YOU REALLY FIND THE GUY YOU WANT TO GET MARRIED TO AND HE ASKS YOU HOW MANY GUYS YOU HAVE GONE OUT WITH BEFORE YOU MET HIM, WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO SAY. ARE YOU GOING TO SAY "OH, JUST 15 GUYS", IMAGINE WHAT HE WILL THINK OR BETTER STILL ARE YOU GOING TO LIE. I AM NOT SAYING THAT YOU SHOULD'NT GO OUT WITH GUYS, ALL AM SAYING IS THAT YOU SHOULD'NT BE ASKING "HOW MANY?".
Honestly,any woman having more than 3 bf's before marriage is a LovePeddler or maybe they do not know what they want,you have to know what you want in a man before agreeing to go out with any of them,whatever you do at your youth will lay a foundation for your future and the law of karma will catch up with you.
na wao,you don't give people such advice,it can lead them to where the ordinarily won't be,maybe it worked for you doesn't mean it will work for them.
As many boyfriendz as possible.You dont have to sleep with all of them do you?normal fun nd all d normal stuffz wud do.Some might have 2 othas 20 but it dont make them bad.itz all bout heartbreakz,muvin on nd poo, bt me,i dunno.i have had just one.still with dat one.so estimatin,i hope to be with dat one bt it cud end up being 4 or so if sumtin goes wrong,
If you dont aim to learn from your relationships, you will have a lot of boyfriends. After the first 2 or 3 proper relationships, you should have a very/fairly good idea of what you want from a man. That way you know how to take your pick from all the guys that come your way.
Good luck babe.
I really agree with Seun on this,its makes life easier for you when you settle,you can always open up to your guy and remember guys will keep saying those stuffs even though they are gone,your man will always refer to it,if possible,dont start dating untill you think you are ready for it and make sure that you find out a lot of things about any guy you want to go out with.
she should have as many as it takes to find someone she feels ready to spend the rest of her life with (if that is her goal). It is the hope of most people that this number will be small because
1) The girl should be learning more about what she wants and how to find it each time
2) If the girl is discarding guys left and right, her goal isn't quite to find someone she is ready, or she has really strict requirements that make it hard for guys to measure up
3) silly societal views on women