I've been at the receiving end a couple of times, most especially when the girls I'm with are to-die-for ("larger-backs" kinda girls). really sucks when it comes from an acquaintance and it's done in hiding as the trust you have nose dives! when shorty is with another guy in the vicinity common sense preaches backing off. reactions to these situations are best dealt with maturely. calm yourself and wriggle out tactfully, no one wants an efenji efenji repeat.
P/S: naija boys sef. na una go dey pose like say tomorrow no dey, yet na una no go carry babe come club. na the same una go come dey find excuse me dance dey try toast other boys chicks. in the end na una go bounce commot with Ashi as if to say na heavy conquest. i tire.