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How Often Do You Quarrel With Your Lover?

I ask this because my own case seem to be unique. Sometimes we have misunderstanding(s) 4 like three times a day!(when we r both home), sometimes we don't. The causes range from the reasonable to the downright nasty. Most times i want to throw in the towel & call it a day. However, i want to know if my case is peculiar, if we ain't gonna work or if ours is one amongst many.

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I believe misunderstandings always strengthens or weakens a relationship.

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Godmother- u funny o!!

@sugar- a 6 month break? u might as well break up.

how do u speak to her? there is a big difference between saying baby- that dress is not for u, than baby- that dress makes u look like a slut. are u patient with ur words, or do u jump to conclusions and attack ? do u make sure she is smiling after u settle? or do u make ur point say goodnight and hang up? how do u know she is not still steamed over it if you don't make sure everything is smooth? or ur too busy to bother?? do you allow time for both to cool so u can discuss things like adults or do u wanna say ur peace and who gives a damm how she feels. its very easy to point the finger at someone else. learn how to commincate more effectively.

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I once had a guy and we used to quarrel like 4/5 times a day.It got to a point where I startedenjoying the quarrels. They were not serious quarrels o

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Still young. Luv d gal bt can't help going over d edge atimes. Right na we ain't lafin.

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Well, I have been in a relationship for 7 years now and some of those early years we would quarrel and fuss alot and LOUDLY. We went through some ups and very low downs but things have evened out in the last 3 years and now smooth sailing we hardly ever quarrel. If we disagree it doesnt escalate into something loud and ugly, we just move on quick but those are far between. We are older though 47 and 50 so am not sure if that can have something to do with mellowing out. We both agree we are too older and wiser to fuss and have time for alot of drama.

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