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How Open Can You Get With Your Feelings?

Are you the cold type who loves but doesn't show it?

Are you the warm type who shows but can't stand the stamp partner?

Are you the hot type who writes love letters to show how much you love?

Well I am the cold type. I had hever always been like that but I just became one and it isn't working for me. I want to go warm, but definitely not hot.

So what type are you?

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It ain't funny to me but whatever.

topic,

i don't really have a problem with opening up about my feelings. the issue is more or less how it often backfires when those said feelings have been expressed.

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lol i would never pretend that. most likely u really were invisible. lol

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Funny how a couple of days ago you were pretending I was invisible, so I don't understand how I just automatically popped up on your radar today.

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Ahhh it depends o.  Very delicate matter.  Revealing your feelings too early would make you very vulnerable.   On the other hand, not expressing your feelings to the one you love could make her feel unloved and under-appreciated.

Me I no comment o . A bit hard to know who the right person is to open up to .

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i used to think i was cold when it comes to showing feelings but when u meet the right person u move from ice cold to boiling hot and begin to show emotions and experience things u only read about in romantic novels.(day dreaming right now)hmmmmmmm

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women, always complaining, if the guy ignore the signs them go vex, he acknowledge the sign dem go say hin too do, na wa oo

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Irritating when people want to force you to feel something you don't feel

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i can be very open with my feelings, provided my my partner understands and appreciate it, but it's usually never like that.it's either he's not getting it right or he wants more than i can give.

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I think i'm hot type and i like showing my feelings when i'm in love,i can't just hide it because it will tell

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am the cold 1. its all part of protectin ones self frm getting hurt

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C2H-This is where you been hiding, huh? Missed u, man-wassup?

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why do you lol?

why this why that

spirit of wine is the common name for ethyl alcohol

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I get confused at times cos i dont want 2 b taken 4 granted(ie wen i like u oh).I hardly show ma affection.i can so hide ma feelings bt wil want u 2 discova ma likness 4 u ; like complain wen u dnt kal as often as i wld want u 2.But wit ma last xperince,i tink i nid 2 b a litle 2 d hot side.i can also b blunt if i dnt like u.i hate 2 mk u feel imptnt wen i kn u r nt 2 mi.

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When it comes to feelings, am a very open person. If am crazy abt u, i will let u know, both in words and deeds. And if i dont like u, u'll will definitely know.

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OYINDA!OYINDA!OYINDA! how many timx did I cal u?look into my eyes nd tell me u dont kno wat door to open wit dat key.

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so what's the cause of all the confusion

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key to open what door. you see you're derailing the thread

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what else am I supposed to say lol

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I think i am hot

though not scalding hot

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not realy very open but open to God fearing people

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really we should always be honest and be our selves.

Somewhere down the line your real self will always come out.

Stay blessed.

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am neither cold nor hot that makes me warm,

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i forgot. u took too long

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yea i'm back. that took a while. what was ur question

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Multiple Personality Disorder. Oh plz, dnt act like you don't know what it means.

Out of therapy and he's acting like he's normal

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yea hurry up with ur exercise and get back here. lol

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to you.

be back l8r . exercise time.

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r u talking to wanville? lol

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my parents never told me that. it's just my personal preference. the beauty of the ebony woman is too golden to pass up.

your boyfriend is not your parents. you should not put him in a positon like that. try to let your guard down a bit.

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I think it's just my personality. but I try to be warm though. My friends know that I care even if i'm not mushy 24/7 like some ppl. lol

@wanville, you should also be able to lean on their shoulders when you're down. that's what friends are for. but if it's been serving you well to hide your feelings when you're sad then I guess that's fine.

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i can't date that. would be guessing how she's feeling left and right.

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@michelina89

since ive joined nl i have never known u to be cold, plus u dont look like a cold type at all

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don't mind that one. she was bullshitting.

i can't mess with nothing else.

why are you not one of them? you sound scared

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don't really go on dates but most of my guy friends are hot. I have only one close male friend that is cold.

what kind of girls do u date? and why do you hate being hot?

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so which kinds of guys do you date? hot guys or cold guys

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smh

yes you are hot. lol i've been telling u that all along

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kai sorry o i dozed off.

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and then post which category you fall into. we'll go frm there

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who are you to judge that helping me become hot is not +ve

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