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How Soon Is Too Soon?

A guy meet up with a babe and got attracted to each other, how soon is too soon for the following:

1. The babe spending the weekend at the guys house

2. The babe start leaving some personal stuff at his own place, like tooth brush and her towels, basically claiming the owner

3. The man start using that golden statement, " I LOVE U"   seems like most nigerians in nija now uses " i love you" like a disease they just caught.

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Simply_me, is that you in da pix, f that is you, it is never too soon to know u ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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@$$Rhino

why u bothered answering totally confounds me!

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Simply, to have sex could be same night

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you forgot to add:

have sex - or u r not interested?

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its neva too soon for anything.

Too soon could mean a year to one person but would mean a week for another. If both of you are on the same wavelength then its fine. but if you are having doubts then its too soon!

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It just makes me sick, how u start talking to some babes in nigeria and the next thing within few minutes is "I love you", when i get that, i wanna run, cos how could u love me when u hardly know me

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Well it depends.

You can’t just meet a girl and ask her to come over to your place to spend the night with you or to start keeping some of her stuffs with you. First, the man has to see how committed the girl is towards that relationship before he starts making any further movements.

If that relationship is based on trust and true love, then the whole process shouldn’t take more that 2-3 weeks. But if one of them has a skeleton in his or her cupboard, then they have a real long way to go because one of the parties has to come out openly to the other.

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zambian?, who are they ? from where to where?this aint africa.com,  this js nairaland for nigerians ,  just consider ueself a green card holder, am a citizen of this site, get it

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This is not the answer to the topic but i just want to advice these guys who like provoking others, is this how you are Nigerias insulting like this? We should stop it, if you dont want to contribute to the topic its better you stop than insulting. Please live like Zambians.

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may the lord have mercy

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These all depend on personal preference as there is no standard right and wrong for it. The only statement I want to mention is "I love you." I agree, from what I see in Nigerian movies. . .and from personal experience, people say I love you too early (generally) or they don't exactly know the meaning of the statement. But there really is no "too early" to say "I love you," if you mean it. . .then you mean it. But just really make sure you mean it. . .along with everything that it implies.

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