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How To Approach A Girl On The First Day?

Tricks On How To Approach A Girl On The First Day

Please guys, help me out. This has been some kind of problem to me. If i see a girl for the first time I will not know what to tell her or say. Please I desparately need you guys help.

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Av learnt a lot here!

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@op first of all look 4 money (i mean get productive)n i bet u d rest is history @girls i dnt mean an insult but we no u all like good things n only money can buy dem.

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First date, be confident as crazy. A little humorous arrogance is good, not annoying bragging, just be funny in a cool way, dont act all needy, ur body language means a lot, dont lean on the table towards her, lean backwards. Just imagine if u were any ladys dream come true, how confident ud act. If u act needy ur most likely gomna be foreva friendzoned, dont be decieved, mr nice guys always come last.

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Make una help me I don fall in love wit dis grl nd I've been bhavin like a jerk lately I need tips on how to approach a grl

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Lol you talking twak. Iv done that before and some of them will just say thanks and look away. Just that moment when she looks away you will feel small. So topic will make her think you into her and you willing to know her. Iv been there and I felt it

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Okay okay I hear you guys and you'll talking poff.

1) Smile

2) Be yourself

3) Try to throw a joke to make her open up

4) Ask for her name

5) Push two or three topics

6) Pretend you in a hurry ask for her numbers

Try not to get caught after you leave

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if d gul giv him a dirty slap he should take it cuz itz part of d game. N he should try 2 apologise 2 d gul 4 disturbing her peace n he wil c d gul coming around him next tym 2 beg him 4 4giveness, there he wil get d gul

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They have said it all but my advise is you just be yourself and natural. thanks

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Most of una here just dey mouthy

Some of una worst pass the poster sef

Na who really talk he own be mumu

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B4 u approach a gurl, be ready 4 rejection,she's nt goin 2 kill u,d worst she cn do is to say no,be respectful to a girl,make a compliment(a obvious bt unusual one) that might evn be funny,jst be confident wit urself,if she replies u show interest in what she says...u can practise wit a girl u dnt rily like...

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No need for planning cos she;ll never respond the way u expect her to, just go with the flow and grow a thick skin while u're at it cos some girls can be ill-mannered & immature!

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theres tons of women talking about this at www.askwomendatingadvice.com

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@ poster na wa oooooooo

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OH MA GAD

i'm shorta words

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useful information are loaded on this site

http://tipsfordesignerdogcollar.blogspot.com/

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I feel bad for you, man .

Very simple, girls like to see that confidence, that evidence that you are on top and ova the world. Therefore man, even if your insides are shaking . give her a SWAGGER WALK. walk to her, start with an ice breaker (joke, ), add a flattering comment about her (they always love that).tell her that you have been looking at her and that you find her pricessless. Then man do the dignified thing and lose her so she would not look at you like a clinger. before living dont forget to collect her number oooooooooooooo. wish you ill luck.

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U can get more tips on this site

http://thebestdatingtipsforguys.blogspot.com

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I must say that all the guys that contributed have really done justice to

to your name.

However I must warn you that you don't need a list of rules to abide with,when you

approach a girl. Rather find a

a means to calm your nervous down and beef your confidence level

Please note that a girl will quickly write you off if you seems like a faker.

Always take a deep breadth and be yourself when approach a girl

Say what is in your mind but please always find a way to make her wanting

more of you.

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Guy,save urelf from trouble.

D easiest way/method is just her a very simple quetion.like

1.How much/price?

2.Is it per-second billing?

And finally,

3.drop a soft copy/hard copy of your cv.

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True talk from kike, just listen to what she has to say even when she is saying trash, did i just say that? Sorry!

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dis is a simple one

just tell her things u know she has heared b4

only in a different way

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Come up straight, let her know u want to F**k her, she knows dat anyway, she just needs some confirmation from u, She did feel unattractive and disrespected if u don't want to, Lift her spirit by letting her know u want to f**k her, if u are f**kable, she did F**k u,

words from the wise, hehe

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Teacher Teacher no bi Lecturer bi your name, Teacher don't teach me nonesense!!!

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Bro,I tink u av 2b Bold and work on your self-confidence.it helps cos it comes from d inside of u(mind) to d outward(ow u compose nd relate wit d lady).

On wat 2say,4me i dont bliv dere ar sme specific sentences/words u av 2alter but it depends on d setting nd wat d environment is as at d moment of meeting her.though,general greetins such as hi,ow do u do,wat has ur day bin like etc ar quiet good.sme of d qualities dat i bliv wld help apart 4rm self-confidence(which is d major one are):

1)Just be natural

2)be a good listener nd contribute wisely 2wat eva is bn discussed.

3)don't try 2b rude or bullish,rmba it's just ur first meeting.

4)A good sense of humour wld help.most girls enjoy lively conversation especially wen u ar making dem smile/laugh.just try 2make her enjoy ur company.ds one truly works.

Ds ar just sme few ones u nid 4nw.but d self confidence tin rili matas it's wat determines ow u ar able play out d above factors.can assure u if u ar able 2meet 2-3 girls nd u were successful at interactn wit dem,then ds issue wld b a 4goten issue.u go just dey hold babes anyhow anyhow.the more ladies u meet nd were able 2 interact successfully wit,the more more ur self-confidence improves.but pls,look nice and presentable weneva u ar tinkn of meeting a damsel.best wishes!

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As 4 me, I haunt the periphery of d chick, then if its a chick i see everyday I dont ask her 4 her no. till about a week so I wont sound desperate,then she might even be the person 2 ask 4 it herself

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just try and be friendly and get her close not as a lover but a friend. this gives you the opportunity to get to know her and then, the striking point.

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All u need do is just be urself, and try to be brief as much as u can, no go dey assume oooo, go dey read one quote from one love movie or one poem from ur sister library, try get her number, cos u will feel alot more comfortable talking to her over on the fone,

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Walk up to her and tell her what you think she will love to hear. For me there is no best way of approaching a gurl cos as long as people are different all those so called books on dating,romance etc can't speak everybody's mind take it or leave it. [color=#000099][/color]

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As 4 me, I haunt the periphery of d chick, then if its a chick i see every I dont ask her 4 her no. till about a week or she might ask 4 it herself

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believe it or not, the best way to approach a girl is through courtesy, you see, if you are to

direct when approaching women, rejection is highly inevitable, but instead approach her

in a very natural way, make her guess what your intentions are i.e ( DOES THIS GUY WANNA GET WITH

ME OR IS HE JUST A SOCIABLE GUY) that way you are communicating indifferency and challenge cos most guys

are way too predictable.

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I think the best way to approach a girl fi da first time is by tellin her the koko.

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@Raymand i gbadu your comment and i agree in support with it.

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mflol @ rub her hair. wwhat a creepy freak.

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When u see a lady u like just walk up to her n say these words "when i saw u i run out of words ur 2 beautiful, where do u come from"

she will do the rest of talkin herself

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@porter

i've got some tracks for you.its free but dont memoris it cos its only going to harm you when you forget one part.lol

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@porter

i've got some tracks for you.its free but dont memoris it cos its only going to harm you when you forget one part.lol

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No long thing? why all the drama to talk to a gurl? The one thing i always keep in mind is, no matter what, get a number. Normally I simply walk over to a gurl I like(if its on d street) n say 'hi, saw u from over there and came over to say hi.' If its at d club, I walk over to her ask to buy her a drink or tell the bar tender to give her a drink(if she's not poppin Hennessey of Cristal o). Or the simple 'hi, u look nice, thot i shd let u know' to the bland "hi my name is Apache, lets be friends".

Bottomline, is am always looking for an opening. The most difficult part is the first thing to say especially if she is in the midst of friends. Last gurl i toastd, i saw her on d street they were like 4 of dem. I watched dem go over to an ATM. She was sandwiched between her friends wen I came, I simply told her I had to park and walk all d way to say hi. She warmed up n in 5minutes later, she gave me her number.

Forget all dos tips u read o, ur sentences shd be short, no long winding sentences, dat av to delay her response for too long, u can tell her ur name, but dont ask for hers till u've put her at ease and drawn her out. Her name shd be the second to d last thing u ask, then her number, dats how i do it>

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hi, go through the net and you will so many Tips and Tricks on how to get a girl, but onething for sure they all vary and this is to say you are the only one that knows what to do after what you love, hey friend just be yourself, approach the girl tell her what you feel about her, show it to her

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Be yourself most importantly. confidence,but not cocky. It's ok if someone rejects you. maybe it's just not meant for that particular person to be in your circle right now or ever, if that person rejects you.

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Poster, I hope you are not having the problem I had for 2 years. I did not see a girl twice for two years, I go to work by 6am and come back by 9pm; but I can't imagine my self with a one night stand and I don't see the possibility of getting a girl at first sight and first met. If it is the same problem you are having, I am sorry there is no luck oh. Otherwise, block any girl you like and tell her anything, anything works as far as you gave the impression that you like her. Like the one I dey use now is " Hi whats up" she ll say "Hi" or look scared, I would say " where are you going or what are you doing or any question" she ll say anything, I don't care; I would say "Na wow, I dey trip for you oh" with Pigin, some of them will smile, some of them laugh, some of them do as if they don't care etc and that is it, etc without being desperate I will leave. Next time, she will keep staring at me.

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Approaching a girl is kinda tough for some guys and looks so easy for others. You just never know whether the girl you are trying to approach would accept or reject you. But there is a certain way to approach a girl which ensures a positive response most of the time. Click on this link to find out more on how to approach the lady of your chioice guyyyyys, !!!!!!!!!!!

http://meetprincecharming.blogspot.com

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Do it like the Ying Yang twins

"Hey how you doing lil mama?

Lemme whisper in your ear,

Tell you something that you might like to hear. . . "

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Damsal i agree with you. that is such a wonderful and wise proposal.

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If you have good 'intentions', approach her in a very respectful and nice way. The worst you can get is NO.

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U guys are all talking about courage as if it is all he arsenal u need. Well, if courage na ur problem.The first step is boosting ur liver, and to obtain dat liver just smoke a wrap of Indian Hemp and walk ut to her and, All the best of luck dude. One luv

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