How to catch a cheater? These tips are going to help you to know the bitter truth.
Suspect your husband or wife of cheating? Then these tips on how to catch a cheater would help you to get rid of all the doubts.
5 tips on how to catch a cheater
Sad, but marital unfaithfulness is not a rare thing to happen. Both men and women cheat. This is one of the top reasons for ruining families. You deserve to know the truth. Then it is up to you to make a decision to leave or to forgive!
- The phone is the key
They got a password on it and keep it secret from you? That’s a very alarming sign. It means your husband or wife has something to hide from you. You can get in their phone and read the text messages. Unfortunately, catching a cheater turns you into a spy working under cover.
If all the SMS are deleted, that’s another alarming sign. It means the person deletes them so no one would be able to read them.
- Start sniffing around
And that is not an allegory. Women have a much better sense of smell than men do. So, if your husband comes back home and you sense a female perfume on him (not yours), do not start washing this clothes right away. Sniff them to find out if your guess is true. Also check all the pockets for possible proof of his disloyalty.
- Ask him or her about it
It’s not easy and if the person is cheating they may not tell you the truth. However, you know them well and can spot a liar. Maybe he or she is also heartbroken about the affair and are afraid to tell you. If that is the case, you may have the strength to forgive them. After all, rarely marital disloyalty is a one person fault.
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- Follow them
If your spouse gets a late and urgent “work” call, they may be heading to see their lover. So, once again get under cover and follow them to find out it is true.
- Test them with sex
That works amazing with men. Your husband stays long late hours at work or at least says he does. Look your best, put on hot lingerie and meet him after his late shift. If he is excited about having sex with you, well, he might have really been at work. If he acts odd or tells you he is too tired to make love… he might have just had sex with another woman!
These tips are very practical and they can help you to spot the cheater right then and there.
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