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How Do You Get A Man To Kiss You Without Looking Slutty Or Desperate?

Ok People, I know the world is moving "ahead"(please note the quotation marks) but I am still very traditional minded and I feel the guy should always make the first move and has to do at least most of the chasing. There's one problem though, there's this guy I like but not enough to date him. However, the boy has the nicest lips I've seen so far and I would really like the guy to kiss me but I don't know quite how to make him initiate the kiss. Any tips?

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Good answer Miss Nairaland!

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Which planet earth are all these thoughts coming from?

OMG!

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Nes, when I had ma first kiss *clears throat* she mad the first move. if u want it that bad go ahead and make ur move girl and DONT BE AFRAID OF REJECTION. I guess thats whats stopping you from making the move.

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rodayln i choose to believe that was not a question, it was rhetoric, i guess u know what that means cause u ended it by criticizing. duhhhh

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rhodayln where did she beg for the kiss?

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i dont seem to understand one thing.

do u just want to kiss d guy and go,

cos i personally feel that kissing shd be a part of a relationship

or do want him to be just your kiss-pal?

why not initiate a relationship

then u can eat his mouth for as long as u want.

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who says he has to kiss you first

go ahead and make the first move

and fulfil your fantasies

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@big shishi

i konw what u mean, but if u guys are dating, kissing shud be a give,. dont kiss on the first date if u r uncomfortable, but on the second date u cud do it, if she has agreed to go out on a second date then she really likes u, now im talking to grown folks not the lil hgh school dates kids have.

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Thanks people, I see what y'all are saying and you guys reflected a lot of the thoughts that had been going through my mind. Meanwhile @dude, you are very funny. Why would you think that I would want to kiss you when I already said that I want to kiss someone else. Is that how I'll just be going about kissing people. LOL

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Abi oooo my sister, I must also stress that just try to be your normal self, you don't want to seem all pushy and in your face whereas he is laughing at you behind your back. Teenage boys can be funny at times.

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like i said earlier plus this, make sure u do enough to try and make him want u, but dont jump on him that's not how proper girls roll. then abeg ehn sexynes if he doesnt try to atleast kiss u, just forget it he doesnt want to or is not used to it.

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so after you get him to kiss you,

then what

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@sexy_nes

If he finds you attractive he would kiss you anyway, there is no point trying too hard.

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Mr Dude, na wa 4 u o, is that the issue? She simply wants an advice and u are thrusting urself forward, Naija guys sef, Anyway, luck to u!

As for u girl, U shl be mindful of the society u live in, if ur antics are not enough to get him notice what u r trying to offer , he may simply be pretending not noticing u because he's not interested,That doesn't make him a slacker, he simply no want, abi! then give it up, because as for me, if u go beyond that, u make urself worthless, and may be taken for granted.

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olumide that was funny

hey sexy, i tell u, if the guy wanted to kiss u he would have done it a long time ago, forget about being traditional pls, plus u never said if u guys were dating. if u r dating then there is s problem and he shud have kissed u a long time ago. but if u r not dating what makes u think he's gonna jus kiss u like that, abi na winsh, anyways kiss the guy and get it over with. yes guys chase but if u kiss him first doesnt mean u r being wayward, he might kiss u back and wanna kiss u even longer, maybe he doesnt know how u feel and doesnt wanna disrespect u, kiss him softly, then let him take over,

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common wait for him, if he doesnt have the sense to iniate it forget him.And it isnt by force to kiss!!!

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