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How To Get Over A Crush?

Ok, I have a crush on this guy and I want to stop it.  I have tried all the advice (from co-workers/friends) on how to rid him from my mind but I am still feeling him.

Funny, i am usually good on giving advise to my friends/co-workers (first date, gifts, crush.etc.) but now that it is me in the situation i am helpless.

So I ask y'all, how to get over a crush?

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Hard to understand why she doesnt want to get down with him but has a stubborn crush on him still.  Tell yourself some home truth jare, u want to do some serious bedmatics with him - otherwise there will be no crush in the first place!

What else is a crush sef?

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Something similar to what I  used to do to any girl that has a crush on me. For me to resist I face her and joke uncontrollably with her  to the extent that she will find me unattractive again.  

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I believe if you tell him that it will get into his head and he will exhibit an arrogant attitude that will definitely put you off

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next thing on his mind is have sex and dump ya

and even if he doesnt dump ya Bottom, he will take

you for granted cos he knows just how u feel about him.

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pray tell how he wld take advantage?

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Dont fight the feeling, u wont win!

Find a way to get it on with him, flirt with him a bit - intimidate him by imposing your feminine side on him, trust me - good men love a woman who is bold-minded. He'll get attracted to u instantly. What u do with the crush is up to u sha.

Spread the lurve, dont kill it!

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u dnt need to let him know u have a crush on him abeg

he will just turn around and take advantage,besides

as a lady you need to have your pride in place

let the guy do the seeking and askking

and if he is not feeling you as much as you feeling him

then all u have to do is cruch the crush dear.

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there u go, u shd hav asked urself that befor comin here to disgrace urself

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Tell him. . . .it works.

He'll start acting all shitty and egoistic and what not.

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Faux Pas!!!!!!

The best way to get over a crush is TO FIND ANOTHER ONE.

Better still, look at them with your blinders off and start noticing their faults and the things you don't like.

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thats what we r counting on. . . she doesnt want a relationship with him. . . she wants to not hav a crush on him anymore

simple english!

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Have a "Sprite" or a "Tandy" or even a "Mirinda"

Trust me, the "Crush" would never be the same again!

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Acting like a JERK? Thats unfair nd impudent,

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tell him!

trust me, it works. immediately he knws, he wont seem so attractive anymore. . . he'll either start actin like a jerk (like they always do) or he'll warm up to d idea and u'll start seeing all his nasty habits.

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