Are there any tips or tricks to find out if she is cheating?
Unless he is just keeping a serious relationship with me and having casual flings. It is not possible for my guy to keep me and keep another serious relationship. I must catch him even if she stays in another town. When I love a guy, I do it to a fault and will surely crowd and suffocate him with love, jealosy, attention and cares that he will be afraid of even his own shadows.
If he is flinging around , that's another ball game which is dangerous on it's own because of risk of contracting all manner of diseases.
All this 3 will be grouped as one so only 1 answer:
What if he or she is sleeping with someone who already knows u're in a relationship and does not mind. e.g Im next to my wifey/bf/husband and the phone rings and i know the person calling me knows im in a relationship - i would pick up d phone and speak freely with the person and even say stuffs like 'ohh im just chilling with my wifey/bf/husband', the person on the line knows the score and would quickly round up the conversation and ur wifey/bf/husband next to you thinks you're the best wifey/bf/husband in the whole world
You can never catch a cheating lady unless she slips up or decides to tell you
You are very wrong,when your girl sudenly starts cheating on you,you must know unless you have been covered with love not to know and that is the biggest problem with guys,they act as if they dont want to now.here are some tips that would make you find out she is cheating on you:
1)She avoids receiving calls in your presence
2)If she eventually picks up the call,she sounds very defensive on the phone for you to think she is talking to an ordinary person
3)She denies you of sex especially when the other person she is seeing is gaining more ground
4)She hardly pays you a visit even when she does,she does not stay long and gives one excuse or another.
i will tell you more in my next post
Number one sign: If my guy does not store my lovely and sexy text messages for a long time in his phone it means he does not want someone else ( his other babe ) to read them. He is always deleting is messages, he has questions to answer.
Number two sign: If he is so much possesive of his phone. While with him in his house he will not keep his phone carelessly but always having it in his hand. I dont always look into my guys phone but if he keeps it near me and a call or text msg comes in, definitely I may take the phone to him and may see who is calling or texting. But when he suddenly decides to be so possessive of the phone, it means something is fishing.
Number three: If my guy is answering a call in my presence and is just picking his words one by one and either excuses me to answer it outside or tells the caller that he will call again, then something is fishing.
Number three: If my guy switches off his phone once in a while while am with him or when am not with him no matter the reason, it calls for concern.
So the few I have written here can also apply to a lady. Whenever a lady does any of the above, she has questions to answer.
The list is not exhaustive but just the few I can write now. My fingers are feeling some pains right now. To be continued later.
Sometimes can be hidden. It depends on the chic, some tell the new guy about their relationship so, the new guy knows he's only catching his fun and may want to play along without the boyfriend knowing anything as long as he stil wants the free Bleep. As in, no funny text(if they ever send any), no risky phone calls, they both know when when its safe to contact each other. It only takes silly mistakes for a guy to start suspecting anything. I ve seen cases where a girl says her colleague in the office is fond of pulling her legs by calling her different names like baby and sweetheart, so if u see such text on her mobile, ll u stat raisin dust over wat she takes as friendship (like u dont have female friends as well)
Depends on the guy's experience with relationships and his IQ levels. I have seen the red light from a mile in every single relationship i've had, if u know your girl, the signs cannot be hidden.
Funny enough, sometimes, the girls tell u about this new guy, describing him as a friend or something, they do this in a bid to reduce your suspicion when u hear or notice funny things. . . I do my thing with both eyes open, i analyze and re-analyze every single statement and action she exhibits. . . The signs cannot be hidden, not from guys who know. Sometimes it is good to act the fool while u gather your facts, but u always have that knowledge in the back of your mind that the inevitable affects every aspect of life, including relationships.
That is not a tip. It is possible she told the other guy about you. that is she and the guy are lovers cos you cannot satisfy her. That means she would always tell the other guy when she would visit you so that he wont try to contact her that period.
The signs can be hidden. That a woman behaves as if her life depends on you does not mean she does not have another man in her life. You only know if she wants you to know.