I know I say flirting a lot but, how do you know is someone is really flirting with you?
is there really a difference in the way an African man treats a woman and the way a man in the western world treats a woman.
A man in love with a woman loses his mind and though he might try to pretend this is not the case, he cannot deny or hide it. He would go to the extreme to prove his affection and make his desires known. Wining, dinning, wooing and pursuing are all the games men and women delve in, whether in the west, north, south or the east.
Am not saying it's how men should be, you know when a man is in love he only got one story.
that's how some naija men make their feelings visible to women.
but in western world you get to be polite, be gentle, ask her out, tease her, buy her presents, make her feel like a woman you know all those things. But our naija way na to f**k her the same day and come to nairaland and spread the goodnews.
If in Nairaland he post where you post to arrest your attention to him.
Work place like to come closer to you talk to you make jokes and asking some intimate questions. and to be 100% sure he gets anoid seeing another guy talking to you.
In school will like to disturb you all time.
In church come to choir with you join your prayers band, like to come bible study you do attends.
In night club will never let you dance with another person but him.
In bed , oh my God,
He's admiring you openly - some guys can visually molest and UnCloth u
He's trying to maintain eye and physical contact with you long than in necessary / appropriate at that time, eg, shaking someone's hand and they hold on for a second more than they are meant to
He's paying you compliments, u either do not espect, or are unaware of
He's going out of his way to please u
He can't wipe the smile off his face everytime he notices ur looking at him, or looking his way
He speaks suggestively, never quite saying what he really means/wants, but all the time suggesting it so u understand
those are some, u want more?, abi dis one correct 4u?
10 WAYS TO KNOW IF A GUY IS FLIRTING
1. He keeps starring at ur eyeballs
2. he is busy imagining the shape of ur bobbies
3.A curly smile sits at his face all the time
4. he is not following ur conversation strictly
5. He seeks to touch you always
6. A nice kiss at the forhead at the slightest opportunity
He holds ur hand and squeeze pressure gently
8. A peck in d cheek is not 2 dangerous
9. Prefers to greet u with a nice hug , just to get electrons
10. You can feel him when he hugs u good nite
I know. Wait for the lick on the fore head and cheek.
You would know during the later stages. Initially, it could be mindless talking or opening moves of a complicated game plan.
Now, if you really want to know, you can smile and pretend to be shy. He should pick up that something is not normal and if he keeps chatting, then he is interested. If he cuts and runs, well, you know the answer to that.