Like a guy? How do you know he likes you back? Learn the 10 best tips to figure that out!
Male attention could be very pleasant and desirable; specifically if you’ve got a particular crush on a certain guy. It’s time when you question yourself: how to know if a guy likes you? These ten tips would help you figure this out.
Wouldn’t it be so much simpler if a person shows up and just tells you: I like you? But then, it would not be so much fun. Flirting and dating is a game. It puzzles you, but it also excites you. Making it too simple bereaves it of all zest.
Signs of when a guy likes you:
- Cute teasing
This may look a bit dumb at first, but when a fella adores you, he wants to indicate it somehow. Surely, he is afraid to state his interest openly and nicely. So, what he might do is to tease you.
Remember what boys do in school? They pull girls’ hair, pinch them, and tease them. That’s what they can keep on doing even after growing up. They can get pretty annoying with these things. So, how do you discern when a man is just crazy or he is crazy about you? If he’s mad gone on you the teasing would be cute. He would not plainly jeer you to embarrass you. Instead it would be a more fun and enjoyable way of bantering you and signaling you know: I like you.
- Demonstrating his physical abilities
Men like to be perceived as strong, protective and appeasing creatures. So, if he likes you, he might start demonstrating you his physical strength. He may start messing around with his friends to show his muscles. Or, he may start doing push-ups or other physical exercises to show how strong he is. Any type of activity aimed on impressing you with his physical abilities indicates just one thing: he likes you.
- Body language getting close to you
We talk not only with the tongue, but with our bodies as well. If a person who likes you can control his tongue, he may speak to you with his gestures. He may always be trying to get nearer to you or to pat you; even if he is doing it teasingly.
He just feels drawn to you and can’t help it. So be conscious of this sign. His touches and gestures are not accidental.
- Watch his friends
Surely, man’s friends know, when he likes lass. And if he does his friends would sort of mess around with him about her. They would be teasing him, driving him closer to her or do other things just for fun. So, when being out with his chums monitor their behavior. It can imply that he is into you. Listen to their jokes and their talk. Watch what they do. They can sort of mirror his sensations for you.
- Being nervous around you
Romance is thrilling, but it can also be shaking. A person gets tense around a damsel they like. How does it show? He may start sweating when speaking to you. Yes, it’s not a very enjoyable sign, but he can’t help it. You excite him and he might be terrified of your refusal. So, naturally his body responds to the stress.
Even his hands may start shaking a bit or he may start staggering during your chitchat.These signs work well especially if you learn how to know if a shy guy likes you. Shy guys feel tormented and torn between their desire to get to know you and their terror of expressing themselves. So, their bodies speak for them.
- Staring at you
Guys are highly visual. If they like a girl, this means they like what they see. They simply cannot help stop starring at you. Again, it may not feel that nice, but it’s a sure sign a guy likes you. Whenever you turn aside, his eyes get fixed on you. You may carefully monitor his glances to see, if he is into you.
And, of course, when he supposes you are not watching, his eyes would be fixed on the most “delicious” parts of you. Physical attraction is important and love or romance cannot exist without the chemistry. So his indiscreet glances may mean he likes you!
- He shows care
At least this sign is a pleasant one. His care may manifest in giving gifts, making sure you are comfy. In buying you some treats, drinks, etc. They may carry a bag for you, open up doors, and make sure you are not hot and other stuff like that. It’s not a coincidence.
There is a reason why a guy becomes caring. It if is not just a common politeness, then it means he is into you.
- He becomes romantic
You see, romance is not alike to men and women. So, his idea of being romantic may not fall in line with yours. Still, watch out for the swap in his actions. He may start humming a love song. He may give you chocolates or blossoms. He may invite you out to a love story movie (though most guys hate such things).
He may text message you daily. It’s one of the surest signs he likes you. He may also find out your preferences and try to meet them. For instance, you say you like guys wearing black shirts and the next time you see him, he wears a black short even if it kills him in the heat.
- He gets you up with his kinfolk and friends
It’s a big alert if a guy manifests other signs of “affection”, but there is no introduction to his friends or relations. These people are very important for him. If he is reluctant to present you to them, this indicates he is not that into you. On the other hand, if he does, it means the universe. He surely likes you and you mean much to him. Of course, such things do not happen right after you meet. That is why I bring it up only now.
Yet, if you have gotten through the early phase of your relations and move on to dating, watch for this sign. If it is not there, he might be just messing with you aiming for sex or fun and that is it. If you are really into this guy, stop and think twice before you give him what he is after. Once he gets it, he’d be off looking for new fun with someone else.
- He makes you part of his life
A guy who is seriously into you, make you the part of his life. How to know if a guy likes you? Just ask him to go with your somewhere and make a minor alteration in his plans. Is he open to do that?
If you really matter to him, he should make space for you in his life and his activities. This is one of the top signs that a guy likes you. He opens up and changes his plans for your sake. He starts making plans giving you the room in them.
How, if you are really drawn to a guy, you can test him and make him show the signs more clearly.
Dating for girls tips:
- Give him that special look
When you pass him by, just give them that look. It’s an easier way to flirt and stay on the safe ground. Tease him with that look and wait for his reaction. If he is attracted, he would maintain the eye contact and some actions may follow that look exchange.
- Soft touch
Guys feel thrilled when a girl “accidentally” places a soft touch on their hand. If you sit at the table close to each other or working together, just make a gentle and soft touch with your hand or arm.
- Use your voice
Make it soft and sexy. Surprisingly guys are very sensitive to the voice tone change. It can do wonders in flirting. Of course, it should not be plain open flirting or sexualizing your voice. You just mystify him and want him to know more.
These simple tricks can help you get his reaction without actually being initiative and making the first step.
Guys like to think they are the ones initiating the relations and approaching the girl. Most of them never even realize who started the whole thing!
These sings of when a guy likes you can help you to avoid getting too engaged with someone, who really has no interest in you.
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Even if you get drawn to a person, if they do not return your feelings, better leave them alone. It’s not the end of the world. You are going to be alright and find the love of your life all the same.