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How Tolerable Is Your Past?

i was in d galleria 2 weeks ago with a friend who walks there, while were there catching up on ol' times in the lounge close to ticketin area, we met another friend of his who had come to see a movie with his fiancee and after the brief introduction and small talks, he left with his fiancee to get tickets for a movie.

while he did the purchasin of the tickets, his fiancee stood some meters away gazing at a movie poster and then these 3 guys emerge. to everyone's surprise one of them screams her name, rushes over to her and hits on her bum. the lady though embarrassed, greeted the guys while that particular guy held her in a suggestive manner while she tried to discharge them. it was obvious they had a past together.

the shock and awe on her fiance's face was so glaring but surprisingly, he walked over greeted the guys and left. i admired his composure

i met friend again later today and he told that his friend had plans of calling the wedding off, he said even though he knew her past was not particularly spotless, that incidence indicates it mite be more ugly that he could imagine, and he cannot stand the thought of more ugly things happenin when they are wedded. he said the only condition is if she comes clean totally

to all, do u tell your lover, spouse, fiance, husband, wife the whole truth about your past or do u give the revised standard edition? also if u were to tell the truth about ur past, who u were, where u have been, things u did , ur regrets how tolerable do u think it will be or are there some secrets u just have to take to ur grave ?

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the whole drama is sickening! cant believe the guy didnt loose it. most guys can be jealous n possessive u know. since he knew she was not a saint from her past, he shouldnt blame her totally, i guess the guys thot she was still d same person she used to be. life has a way of throwin our crap back @ us so i guess she just as to deal. honesty is a relative, some pple just tell u things they think u should know, the rest is for them alone.

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There are some pasts that shld be told and there are some that shld be left untold.For example if You had a child in ur teens,that definitely will still be opened someday no matter how You try to hide it,so is beta You say it out.If there are things that does not av anything to do wit present or future. leave it -File

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hon, u really dnt need to believe cos it is what it is.

@ all, the past may be history and future sparklin, but how deal when ur past decides to rear its ugly head?

-like iice said, who she was them mite be entirely different frm who she is now, but that still prevent the incidence frm happenin

- i cant state categorically what her relationship with the guy must av been, but that action speaks volumes. as a lady would any guy just walk up to u and hit ur bum without a prior extended invitation? the chances are slim.

- also like iice said, nobody is shocked by ur anything related to u or ur past, i guess thats becos ur honest and bare enouf about it but what of those who are not?

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some things in the past are better untold. It could cause another casala. ur present and future is what maters most

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most women will never tell you the truth about their past.

if the guy is lucky, he finds out and if not, the past is rested.

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How does this make it obvious? He hits her on her bum (which I hardly believe anyway) and that means they had a past? There are some really lousy and brazen guys (and girls), I hope you realise that?

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yes i do i have no secrets for my husband as long as there is love .

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