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Ladies what is the first thing that comes to your mind if your man tells you he has 5 younger sisters and 3 brothers .

Gents how would you feel if your lady says she has 5 younger brothers and 3 sisters ?

Considering the fact that in Nigeria generally the responsibilty of the younger ones always fall on their elder ones.

Do you think this might strain the relationship ?

How many siblings will you actually prefer your spouse to have ?

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Seriously i dont mind if she has 2 dozens of siblings.lol as far as i love her i will do anything just 2 keep her happy.but for her siblings,my generosity 2 them will be to a limit.cos it depends on the way u present urself 2 their family.

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Hmmmmm that will be the toughest test ever cos no matter what u do you will not satisfy both side you have your siblings to take care of too so i think in this kind of situation we have to relocate to china

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See how women bring blood pressure upon themselves? Wetin consign me with how many sisters he has?

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Exactly,Guys are really okey to deal wit.

I was before they got married but not anymore.

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@amosexy

lol, eegbadun

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I don't care if she has 15 siblings and she's the eldest. The way you present yourself is the way you'll be accepted. The kind of person you are is how you're going to be treated. It might not work in a few cases but trust me when you put people where they belong, it sure works.

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@ritanl, aren't you protective of your brother(s)?---it's a female thing, y'all created it so get used to it.

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Well d more d merrier cos I'm from a big family myself and I get along wiv every1 but some boundaries must be made clear which d sisters can't cross, guys r ok to deal wiv

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I wont feel anything. In life, theres always a certain limit someone can help / assist. if my spouse could afford to help, than he shall otherwise its against his will

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[Then again, depends on how much he's earning, and the fact that if u two get married, u might have to help him raise his siblings, with your money that is]

carry ur load, I carry mine too cos I have like 4 to look after in my own family too.

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I doesn't really have to affect the relationship that much.

Fair enough it's his responsibility to look after them but bear in mind he wont be looking after them for ever. The child after him will finish school and eventually get a job; they can share the burden.

[Then again, depends on how much he's earning, and the fact that if u two get married, u might have to help him raise his siblings, with ur money that is]

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Nothing really.

What matters is how he relates to me and to them. . .how i work into the scenario and them into ours.

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