It’s a serious question. You do not want to get close with someone who really does not care for you. How to know if he loves you? Well, Paul in his letter to Ephesians tells us that when a man loves a woman he gives. He becomes sacrificial. Men can be very egoistic by their nature, and only love can transform them and allow them to share and give. Watch out for some obvious signs, such as care, attentiveness, gifts, time he spends with you. A good man would not come late to meet you or forget to show. They would try to go an extra mile to please you and do right by you. These signs are so simple and obvious that at times we forget them. We like a man and then when he fails, we start making up excuses for what they have done. Unless you wish to keep on making such excuses for man throughout all your life, take a close and honest look at him.