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I Caught My Girl Friend In Bed With Another Woman: What Should I Do?

i caught my girl friend in bed with another woman, what should i do

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These knucklehead men that are telling OP to join know damn well in real life they wouldn't even want their girl sleeping with anyone else even with a woman.

A man that really care about his girl and love her will be tormented because now he have to compete with women as well.

Cheating is cheating regardless if it with the same sex or opposite sex. Don't lower your standards just because others have lowered their standards.

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@poster, u're just a typical example of a pot calling a kettle black. From ur replies pertaining to this post of urs, u said u love this lady dearly and that it would have been easier for you to leave her if it involved " 1 of your ashewos", so it means u may also be a cheat, same as your girl. But not 2 worry, i've got some tips for u. 1. Your gurlfwend is obviously a bi-sexual. Maybe you should just sit her down and have a heart-2-heart discussion with her. Watch her attitude afterwards, if she turns a new leaf, fine. Otherwise, just leave her for good. @ Julian, you have a high level of maturity. *thumbs up*

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I remember being in Abuja sometime 2 years ago for 2days.

My chicks very close friend came to the house and for lack of things to do

they started watching adult movies.

Hey rooney, I feel you on this one.

Its a good thing they are married now. . . dude need to tell his wife to go find that b_tch and tell her bring it back.

They just discovered a new angle to make it an enriching marriage. . .

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Do u know wt ure supposed to do.do u by chance stay in lagos?if u do.den ure lucky.jst go 2 3rd mainland bridge and jump inside.ure so daft for coming here to ask us such a dumb question dt a mosquito cannot even ask.

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Simple, ask her what is enjoying with a woman like herself?

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tell her to invite her friend again to the bed and bang sense into their heads toto

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This guy no fast @all. U for join dem, or maybe him no fit finish 1 gal, not to talk of 2gals

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in r kelly's words: DOUBLE UP!!!

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You are the one who will decide if you want to continue with the relationship or not. It all depends on the kind of person you are and your philosophy of life.

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This is a terrible act&its not easy to change when one is addicted/developed a habit 4 such.Pls pray for Gods direction b4 u walk away.God forbids such in Gen: 19.So reason well

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opportunity comes but once.

u missed a 3some.

damn!!!

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I was asking aisha2 so that she'd explain more. . .

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i dont watch nollywood films i dont watch naija films,

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What did you mean by too much of nollywood? Do you mean he watches too much of nigerian movies? What has that got to do with his problem?

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Poster, yeh right, you wish. Too much of nollywood melts the brain.

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but why say all of una all u think of is sex,

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seriously all this while when they talk of gay people and lesbians i thought we did not have things like that in naija but now i know the truth its for real, what is nigerian turning into and to think i knew this gal for 8 months she said that was her first time but a thief will always tell you that is the first time its over i feel bad and also happy at the same time , does anybody know of any chatroom for naija people?

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i dont know why you had to ask this question

join in the act

kapish

two for the price of one , . . .lol

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thank you all for your advice but its so ridiculous cos i am sure we enjoy sex when we are doing it cos of the shouts and the moans i get maybe she was faking it after all.some of you say i should get in bed with them do you guys know what is love this is my fiance that i am hoping to marry if it was one of my ashewo that will be a different case one thing that is on my mind is that she will keep doing it no matter what she is asking for my forgiveness but i am not going back to her,

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HI,

IT SHOWS U DON'T KNOW HER.CALL FOR A MEETING,HAVE A HEART TO HEART CHAT,DON'T BE TOO HARD.

FROM NOW ON,ORGANISE AN OUTING TO GET THE REAL HER OUT & SO THAT AN INFLUENCE CAN MADE ON WEAKNESS SUCH WILL BE STRONG.THERE MIGHT BE AN UNDERLYING FACTOR THAT IS RESPONSIBLE FOR IT.

GOD HELP U.

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I think you should find out if it is a regular thing or just a one-time mistake. That will be the determinant of your next line of action.

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My brother, this shits happen from time to time;

and to tell you the truth they are very few women who have not done that and that does not - necessary make such girls lesbians.

A (true) lesbian will never date a man!

Y?

Men irritate them just like a man irritate you who is straight!

Just ask around; some will admit it and some will not.

I remember being in Abuja sometime 2 years ago for 2days.

My chicks very close friend came to the house and for lack of things to do

they started watching adult movies.

One thing led to the other and they did it!

Did I catch them in the act?

No Sir!

She told me when I came back because she felt bad after all.

what I did, told her to put it behind her!

Today she is my wifey!!!!!!!!!

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U must be a joker u saw dat & u're askin wat 2 do, comeon its u lucky day 4 a 3some.

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Maybe she's into that awful act because of your inability to show her proper love and care. Therefore, I would suggest that you sit her down an have a heart to heart chat with her; tell her how you feel about her and how disappointed and heart broken you felt when you caught her in bed with another woman.

If she decides to change, fine. If she doesn't, then you better look else where for the love of your life.

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