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I Cheated On My Guy And Confess To Him, Is It Wrong?

My guy has not been in the country, early last year we had issues of which i decided to move on, even thou i still love him, late last year, he started calling me again to make up, i have been getting admirers i decided to listen to one of them, of which i had intimacy with him.

the day i slept with one of my admirers, i cried throughout the show cos i promised to keep my body for my guy, immediately i texted him i ve something to tell him, i boldly told him i cheated on him, plead and promised not to do it again with all sincerity.

he forgives me, i observed the love he has for me increased. but am a bit afraid, he might use that against me someday.

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bless ur heart divine,

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@Topic I had a girl that cheated on me once and she told me about it.At first I was furious and mad bt later cooled off and realised that if she didnt tell me i dont think i will ever know and cus i loved her so much i forgave her and loved her even more.

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You have distroy the trust that he had for you

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my dear some things are rather left unsaid!

u were foolish to have told him what happen ,

do u knw hw many ladies he has been wit since he left u, \

al u have jus done is to give him a good reason to dupe u, WAKE UP! AND GROW uP GIRL!

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No you really tried not all girls are so

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Babe, you did the right thing, I've experienced the same thing as in when my girlfriend confessed to me about a similar issue i felt very sad at first but when i sat down and meditated on it i realized that it was the love she have for me that made her tell me the truth, i quickly ran back to her and gave her the chance to explain and i forgave her and since then things became even more better between us, so babe you have a heart, that's why your conscience couldn't allow you to continue cheating.

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confessing is not bad. Fornication is. You may just have succeeded in setting off a viscious cycle that can span years. Do to others what u'd like for urself. U'd rearly go wrong with this, trust me!

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Am sorry for any human being who banks on a girl that lives in a different country if he does not frequent the former at least once or twice a month.Can a lady stay one month without intimacy?

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my dear some things are rather left unsaid!

u were foolish to have told him what happen ,

do u knw hw many ladies he has been wit since he left u, \

al u have jus done is to give him a good reason to dump u, WAKE UP! AND GROW uP GIRL!

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@youmour

Oh i'm currently based in yabaleft, and its not what you think. I am here because of one of my cousins Amebo no 1, and fear not, i am just here out of the goodness of my heart, we are not related, she is not a blood cousin, i just call her my cousin as per you know say na everyone be our cousin in naija, lol.

@TPIA

If not that i am a gentle being always all for peace, I would have bumped up this thread and alerted Mckokoro/Mckrackles, that you are calling him CROACKER fish, but i am a peacemaker so would let this slide.

Mind you, croacker fish is more refined in taste, expensive and not as common and cheap as tilapia, just saying, lol.

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Let me get this straight. Let me know if I got it all wrong. You and your bf had a fight and you moved on. As in broke up? Then you met another guy and you slept with him. Where is the cheating here? Why did you text the guy you broke up with in the first instance? If this is the case, you did not cheat on him. But you were immature to go get revenge by sleeping with another man and texting your first guy to tell him. Why? to make him jealous? But then, on the other hand, my guess is that you never broke up with him. You were just angry and you slept with another guy. In that case, you cheated. Yes, there is a repercussion. He is probably not happy with your decisions and you know it hence why you are here about your problems. The trust is gone and has to be rebuilt. You need to work on rebuilding his confidence in you. This can only be done by your actions and not by words. So, start acting right. God will help you act right if you ask for his help.

PS: we dont want to read any negative behavior from you. So also you bf.

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@youmour

It is not easy and cheap to keep this 76 years old body in that shape, so if you wan know my parole, be prepared to join the waiting list which currently stands at a meagre 17, to join my current tab of 13 e-concubines, e-lovers, e- husbands, e-jumpoffs and so on and so forth.

Meanwhile, forward your CV, Shares Portfolio, proof of deed of international landed properties and anything you have to prove your networth, and we will take it from there, and who knows sef if what i see will land you at the front of the waiting list or even displace one of the already 13 eligibles running the show, lol.

Lest i forget, are you a titled man or from a Royal family too by any chance? I need to protect and preserve my bloodline and can't afford to taint it.

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@unclenna- preacher thanks for dat piece, but will she listen to dat one? Tomorrow she will come up wit another one maybe wit the pastor this time.

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ol men busy body so u fine like dis, where u dey make we parol

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since he is not ur husband the confession is not necessary.He is a man and may be playing his own games yet he did not confess.If u are married dont even try misbehaving and then confessing becos u have bot ur ticket to divorce with ur own mouth.BE A GOOD GIRL.

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Divine good evening. Firstly temptation is temptation and it gets the best of EVERYONE. From cheating to getting off track from a diet lol, ppl get tempted. While I am not saying it is right to cheat I am not going to judge you. I am sort of in the same predicament. Yes I stepped out of the relationship and I can tell you guilt can really be a b.tch (excuse my language) because while he is treating you good regardless of your fault he also knows that you have given him ammunition for any argument as it was you who did him wrong. So the most he can go it try to make it work with you or leave no need for the constant guilt trip. You are not a LovePeddler, you are human.

As for the name callers do not let it get to you. People (esp. on NL) can be very judgemental but as long as you know you are a good person who makes mistakes and can own up to your imperfections you will be alright.

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muhahahahahahhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahahaha

DEATH!

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all of u shd better stop this ungodly act and come to God. @Divine instead of asking God 2 4giv u, u r busy begging ur man. Is he God. My advice is surrender ur life to God and He will keep u n bless u with a nice man of ur choice. that UR man will leave u soon. mark my word. come 2 Jesus for safety.

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@ poster

abeg stop opening daft threads all over the place. You live here, you work there, etc etc.

I think by now all you yahoo yahoo people should start thinking of alternative and legal forms of employment with the way you're being busted in different countries. Nigeria's own go soon reach.

If you want to have a respected persona here, then dont start silly threads like this one. If you insist on doing so, then stop all the religious and other stuff so everyone can know you're on NL for frivolous things.

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Nice one bro, That's why I thanked BUSY_BODY for her good research work.

Some ladies are just really silly and harlot.

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@ busy body      

why are you doing this? anyway i didnt cheat on my guy this year, so don't consider that guy.

Right, back to the manuscript, which one of the two guys should i not consider or is there more guys you wanna tell me about, berra tell me before i find out myself

Secondly, you said you did not cheat on your guy this year, so are you jejely confessing that you cheated on him the year before and the year before and the year before and the year before  

And a word of advise, you berra take up my offer to become a comedian, you can even have my agent sign you, or we can even be a duo act - Busybody/Divine R the Clown    

 

You really hit the nail on the head with this. I wonder why people go far as writing anything they feel like without looking at the repercussion. If not for you now, we will be sympatising with her.

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We are looking for sponsors for our new TV reality show: "Cheaters" Nigeria.

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Thanks my lovely sister, That's exactly the reason why am mad at her.

Can you imagine such bad attitude of hers.

The next thing you see them in church on Sunday shouting to the Lord as if na them holy pass and those holy brothers will now be developing on kind feelings for them.

GOD saved that guy she said she admired in her church, I think the guy already knew she's one of those ladies with

EVE attitude.

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oops goin to get ice cream and pop corn anticipating a movie fight

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Punk a.s.sssss, what the fucccck are you up to?.

Did you think am one of those guys you can just use to catch fun or tips?.

Bunch of Harlot.

LUNATIC.

Am trying to correct you to change your extremely bad harbit you are even opening your dirty mouth U've used to sucked the manliness of those naughty guys u r tripping for to just talk to me anyhow.

TO HELL WITH YOU.

Now listen I don't hate you but you made me to, The very first time we talked on phone you seemed to be a very cool and reasonable person.

But I never knew you can still come up with such a post like these.

I hate you because you are one of those ladies that pretend a lot.

Thanks to BUSY_BODY.

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@poster- for u to do it, dat means u can do it again. Because of a little quarrel wit ur bf u cheated on him. Na so u go dey cheat ova a every quarrel. Pls advice dat guy to go and find another girl who is trust worthy, and forget u, cos u re not.

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No need to comment on this cos is not wise to write when angry, SOFECO you don't know me dont try to say what you can not defend.

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@tee jaz

thanks very much God bless you

@SOFECO

if you hate it someone else like my courage ok. so stop eating yourself up

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am forced to comment on this again,why are u all crucifying her like this,she is better than most of u guys in that aspect,more than 70 percent of 9ja gals can never admit to their partner if they do such.@ poster but the info i get abt u re very bad u can still make amends just change,and remember u are no worse than those crucifying you u are even better.

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@SOFECO

why are u talking asif you have a personal fight with me long before now, listen you can say all you care to say ok, why are u talking of facebook, age and womanhood here.

listen am not here to insult anybody or call names, i think we are matured enough, mind the kind of words you use. you must not respond/comment on all the thread that comes your way.

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i realy like u 4 telling him de truth,my advise 4 u is dat dont do dat again ooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

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@Poster, Y dont people stop posting daft stories? WTF do u intend to achieve with such trashy post?

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@ BUSY_BODY

Thanks for that great work, it's being appreciated even if they are abusing you, calling busy body never mind them.

@ POSTER

Before GOD and man you are a big foooool and a disgrace to woman hood, it's because of the kind of ladies like you that some guys discriminates ladies.

You proved yourself holy and still doing some silly things and sinful act, and it's the kind of ladies like you that uses church parol to cover face and also uses church parol to look for a good husband and changed to your former attitude after wedding.

Well, I have a lot to say but let me just stop here, my own advice for you is that you might find it somehow hard with men/guys even when you are married with this your nasty attitude if you refuse to change from it.

Even in your FACEBOOK PROFILE your marital status is MARRIED, and I think you are heading to 30yrs very soon.

So what is it that you are really upto gaan?.

No wonder we have enough older single ladies out there.

Take care.

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Lol, dis thread is more entertaining than some boring Nigerian movies!

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When you were kissing, you didn't enjoy it right?

When he undressed you and flinged your bra and panties to the other side of the room, you didn't enjoy it?

When he was sucking and nibbling on your nippies, you told him to stop abi?

This "stop-it-I-like-it kind" of thing.

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its not easy to admit to such,but u should also learn to keep promises,i don't think dat u lost a bit of his trust on the contrary you gained more trurst.

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@ poster

are you scouting for another male sef.

see all your contact info on your profile. Most people only put one or two- you displayed four.

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@ Divine: If you felt you'd been forgiven by God and ur boyfriend, why did you have to open this thread for folks to comment on? You must admit that the different tales you keep telling in your different threads bring your believability to question, infact I think you're a very regular fantasist. Now if you really had the problem you raised in this thread, and you don't like the way folks are commenting, ask the moderator to lock it for you. . .but I doubt U'd do that, you obviously love the attention.

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@ peacettw

thanks very much

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all damsel are thesame, guys be wise ooooo

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It's a good thing we hide behind our usernames with some of us going as far as changing our sexes and altering our ages etc. Be it as it may, busybody, though i understand u re doing this for fun and as ur means of livelihood as u so put it, u shld be equally glad u re hiding behind ur alter ego because if this is who u really are as a person then i will loath to know u(guess u will start stalking me from now on). As for u divine, u need to keep up with ur game n cover ur tracks, otherwise, get a new username cos busybody will definitely get busy busting ur behind each time u breath. Either way, no one is perfect. Peace

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@poster,

You are surprised about the change?wonders shall never end,maybe you expect him to jump up high and love u like no other cuz you cheated on him,huh!women! like chamotex said,at what point did you not enjoy it n start crying?forget that guy,he's gone,he can never trust you,start looking for a new boyfriend or better still go back to your partner in sex!

You act like a 20 year old girl sorry!

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poo happen he should handle it

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@poster you shouldn't have told him, you only succeeded in hurting him but he may not show it to you.

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if i must speak honetly it's not a very wise thing to do

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@ Busy body so u are making up with my thread abi

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hmm cat fight

busy body hmm you are really really busy you know

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