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I Dont Believe In Lone Any More?

I met dis garl on my way to skol in 2005. i love her so deeply that i dont think of any garl xcept her alone.we dated 4 gud 3yrs. i travel to abia to see her just to knw what d details of her admisn. i risk my life traveling to the east 4 d first time. geting there, she denied mi in her frends presence and she left mi to meet anoda guy. i cry jst because of my tru love. she later apologize. will settled.she later got admisn in ESUT in Enugu. during wen i was serving( NYSC), I travel down to her state in enugu ESUT. i was doing all dis bcOZ OF D LOVE I VE 4 HER. i knw what i spend on her during my skol days. D painful xpect is that,i call her one day,she refuse to pick, to my surprise, a guy pick her call and warn me not to call her no. d Eba in my hand fell dwn,i cud not contro my emosns. i try callin her immediately 4 like 23 times b4 she later pick and i ask who is dat guy and she said is her guy dat i shld stop callin her dat my callin her has cost lot of problems btw dem. dis is 2008. jst ystday, a no flash mi and i call to knw who d person was and she is d one,afta discussin askin abt her aducatn,she now said if i can speak to her guy,i was mad. i told her what an insult,let dis b d last she ever think of callin mi. Now, since will separated in 2008, i decide to remain cellibate.(means, i ve nava made love since 2008 till now) coz i find it dificut to love now my hrt is lock and i dnt belive in love any more. coz of dat, i ve vowed nava to date igbo garls again. she is an igbo garl. cud this be bcoz of d distance since she skols in d east y i work here in abuja. PLS I BEG OFF U,NO INSULT,AM WRITING DIS WIT A BITTER HEART

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@ Poster, 1st off, dis ur english alone can make a girl deny U!, lol, no mind me , no one`s perfect, just kiddin

`Welcome to Heartbreak`

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freecoco, re u also among d league?

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Selena, where have u been my dear. i miss u

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I think i would say the same thing about yoruba guys too.

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gbam , u don talk am. igbo garls, 4get am

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^^

never i would never marry ibo or some damn Benue,tiv or idoma lady

they are all bleeping flirts~

i rather become a pastor than marry especially from that damn benue state~

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^^

Thoes guys messed up

na their Cup of headache sha~

so place your mind on your GF and not some damn silver eaglets~

@femi4 or 5

i have never misled anyone on this forum

ive always stood on the truth and notin bt the truth

IBO AND IDOMA AND TIV GIRLS ARE THE BIGGEST FLIRTS ANYONE CAN FIND~

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see me see wahala frm no way. u Thoniaslim,are u d one dat is sympathy or ur gf? no be u i see last week dey beg one garl make she come visit u 4 ur house? abe u don 4get me so soon. Mr femi4, no body dey mislead each other so stop accussing finger on 190. he is jst saying d truth.

wetin will go take celebrate has house mate since Super eagle don qualify? thoniaslim, will go see 4 abuja stadium tomorw to watch d golden eaglets

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I don't mean to sound insulting but I've got to say your pathetic!!! Dust yourself stand up and move on!

Life's setbacks are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are and teach you to learn from your mistakes not come here and seek sympathy!

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You saw the handwrting on the wall, but you were too blind to read it, or probably ignored it .

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Sorry !!! Did anybody say love is wicked?

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This is a phase, you'll soon overgrow it and find out just how tasteful life without her can be!

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sorry,but is this ur 1st time(na today woman don break ur heart). . .in life,always expect d worse.

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190 and Godmother, sha u dey see weiting Mr Ibu dey talk jst bcoz his frm those Igbotin place

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mr Ibu, is it dat u are igbo? stop bin bias. u knw ur people quiet well, u selena, what re saying. am i refering or what? dnt make me be hatch on u. though u may b rite but 2 me, there are all d same. are u decent or can u vow with ur life dat u ve not cheated on ur guy b4?

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@190 and FG O1

what is the Bleep with u guys, did igbo girls force you to date them, watch your back nonsens

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@poster

the fact that she was igbo has absolutely nothing to do with the BS that happened to you during all these yrs. you were played . . . . . . . . fair and square!

she could have been yoruba, hausa or from the north pole and STILL play you the same way. you should have left that rat at the first sign of lies and troubles.

accept all these years with her as a lesson in muguism and move on with your life knowing that: before you ALLOW yourself to fall in love with someone, you should know and make sure that she is the right one.

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u re lucky its only eba dat fell 4rm ur hand.the girl's tribe's gat nothing 2 do wit her dumping u,anyone 4rm anywhre can brk ur heart mind u,dis luv stuff is highly overated.JOIN THE LEAGUE.

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yes ive suffered much and a heart break from an idoma gurl b4~ and since then ~ ive since never trusted any gurl again~ she really made me hardened towards the female folks and nairaland made a +ve impact on my life~ it was God that really helped them then ~ till now i still feel the impact, nowadays im kinda okay and gotten over the issue but i now make girlie's to work for their trust before im committed towards them~

my brother this world is a terrible place and them girls are more terrible than the world itself,please before you commit yourself make sure u study that girl over years and make sure she works her way to your heart,tink with your head and not your heart cos your heart is damn too soft~

my 2cents of advice

if u ask me~

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assuming the golden eaglet and the super eagle are playing d same time,which among d two marches wud u like to watch ?

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190, U ARE SAYING D TRUTH.HAVE U XPERIENCE SUCH B4

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she has made me to have hatred 4 garls. i dnt even have feelings 4 any garl coz of my heart is lock. House mate, garls are not trustworthly and are not meant to love. d mistake i made was to give her my hrt. i mean d garl in ESUT

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@ 190, I beg stop misleading pple with your opinion in this forum. Anybody from any tribe can disappoint you.Bad eggs are inevitable,we can only pray that we dont come across them

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As for not believing in love anymore, I feel you.Love is overated

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You would have used complete English for easy reading.

@topic

Judging by your argument i doubt if you are up to 20 years.

Although you said you writing this with bitter heart (which might likely made you to write without stating what you want), otherwise i would have asked what do you want NL to do.

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Lol@the eba in my hand fell down.Sweetie,love does not exist anymore.And igbo girls are not the only ones that would disappoint you,so dont say you will not date igbo girls anymore.I fell in love with two yoruba guys and i was hurt deeply.A word of advise from me to you is not to fall in love,till you know deep in your heart that she loves you too.You do not want to fall in love with someone that does not love you back.

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