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I Like My Boss Does He Like Me?

So recently we got a new manager at my job. He's and attractive guy who is younger then most the other bosses at work. Ever since he started I had a little crush on him that only one of my other friends at work knew about. Needless to say it was no big deal. We would talk at work and maybe flirt a little but it still was not at the point of crossing any major lines, I feel that I did a very good job of hiding my feelings for him. Then recently he sent me a message over myspece, we kind of talked for a while. After that we started chatting more and more over AIM. I never made it known to him that I like him so i was wondering is there a chance he likes me? He's the one always IMing me and making an effort to talk to me. We have talked about everything from our past all the way to what we want out of the future. This has only increased my attraction twords him. But it is policy that we can not date.  So do you think he may have smililar feeling for me?

And if we wanted to could we make a relationship work even though it is against policy to date eachother?

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For those of you who had actul advice thanks very much!

But for others heres some more information, No we do not work at Burger King we actully work at Wells Fargo. I' am still a student and he graduated college a few years ago, so as far as Burger King goes no way. Not that there is anything wrong with burger king. A job is a job so i wouldn't be bashing anyline of legitimate work. For the myspapce thing a lot of people believe it or not have myspace, my eye doctore does so it's no big deal it's a way to connect with people and my guy just turned 26 so it's not like hes 50 and has myspace. And yes he has never asked me on a "date" but he has called me to "hang out" a few times after work. Just the other night he wanted to go out, but i declined because I still don't know if I have it in me to take the relationship there. Like many of u said office relationships get sticky. So I'm still very doubtfull of his intentions twords me. We both are still young and don't have the right answers.

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@ delta 007 how u take no say na burger king she dey work? i had my sucpisions too.

ah ah because this thign don they bother me since! 20 and working which tyme she take enter uni?

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Both of you are still young and still gat ur life ahead of u.

If u ask me, I think he sure likes u but not sure if he wants to date u. keep chatting with him for now and keep this to ursef. U don’t even need to let ur friend/co-worker know that u guys are chatting. (I mean the one that already knows that u have a crush on him).

U neva know…as long as he ain’t married, anything can happen.

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do not throw cushion 2 d wind,what makes you think

he does not have an affair,be careful,i see you have

alot ambition,and this will land you into trouble.

dont push me your luck any further.if he likes you

time will tell.concentrate on your job.

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hi dearie,

guess u ave 2 b calm bout tins cos relationship wit one's boss could b a whole lot of risk.

u r still yuong so y no face ur job n let fate ave his way.dnt b pushy on him lest 2morrow he'll say u asked him out.

besides he's young,mayb attractive (4 u 2 b attracted 2 him),bt dnt u tink he already has a relationship 4rm where he;s comin as u said he's new.

bcareful gal ,dnt tread on dangerous grounds.

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Haba Hollandis,

there is also a chance that the guy truly likes her, its 50/50. he is human and the only difference is that he is her boss, People meet their husbands anywere so dont be quick to jump into conclusion.What she has to do is to slow down, study him and see if he is for real. No jump o !!!!!!!!!

My Two Cents.

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efuah y i no go vex?

Most ogas are not serious bout affairs with their female employees.I hate it when people discover a trap but walk blindly towards it

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No he's only 26 and no he's 100% single

And I'm 20!!

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be careful now madam and i'am sure u know what that means. let this one not turn into another topic on nairaland.

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would u fancy this same guy if he was below u or on the same level as u? would u fancy him if was the security guy at work?would u give him a second of ur time if he was that guy that made sure ur office was clean A.K.A the cleaner, it goes on.

i feel like saying exactly how i feel but lets be cordial

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