im a 30 year old man from the eastern part of nigeria.i have been dating this lady for 4 years now.recently i started thinking about marriage so i told her my mind by proposin to her which she accepted.i work with 1st generation bank with mangable income for about 5 years . i currently live with my parents and i use my mother's car.this implies i need to get my acommodation a car and wedding expenses.
based on my savings i showed her my budget for the above as follow:
1.2bed room aparment
3.1.5million for the wedding ceremonies
4.250k for honeymoon
all the above would cost me about 4million
but to my chagrin,this lady who is an unemployed graduate of 2years me blatantly that i am not ready to marry. reason to be given later.
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