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I'm 15 And My Boyfriend Is 20: Is That Right Or Wrong?

im 15 and my boyfrend iz 2o do u think tat iz right or wrong i jsut need 2 know wat ya'll gotta say!!

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9jerians n their mentality

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Gal,i c nafin wrng wiv it joor. Wen i was 16,i dated sme1 dat was 25yrs old,meanin he was 9yrs olda dan i was. He was my 1st luv n we even had plans 4 marriage bt as circumstances had it,we brk up @ d long run. Bt gal he s stil afta me till date wntin to marry me..

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shut up you suppose to be reading your mathemTICS IF I SHOULD hear boyfriend from you again i will beat you up

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It is capital wrong my dear. I have read someone saying that it is your life, and that you know what you want. It's not true that it is your life. Nobody owns life. It is God's. And he alone determines what and how we should live. Secondly, at 15 it is presumptious to think that you know what you want. Believe me you dont know neither do you have a clear picture of the idiosyncracies of life at that age, not to talk of managing an affair with a 20 year old. I thing that what you need now is to be active in you studies, join a positive peer or youth group like Girls Guide, Teenage choir, Drama Group, or Debate group in your school. I thought you are seeking for a honest opinion that's why I sent this one - take care.

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My friend, go and read your book before you end up with unwanted pregnancy, thereby delaying or denying yourself better education.Your 15, your boy friend is 20,what guts.Read your book while you have time.

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Small girl like u instead 4 u 2 concentrate on ur education and lay gd foundation 4 ur life na boyfriend u dey think. He's already a distraction u. Let this b ur motor BBB i.e books before boyz.

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imagine, she where already dating a guy of 20yrs as at 2006 meaning 2010 she wil date 28yrs old

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imagine, she where already dating a guy of 20yrs as at 2006 meaning 2010 she wil date 28yrs old

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imagine, she where already dating a guy of 20yrs as at 2006 meaning 2010 she wil date 28yrs old

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imagine, she where already dating a guy of 20yrs as at 2006 meaning 2010 she wil date 28yrs old

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Wrong! Dont know about your country but in mine its actually illegal! Under 16 is statutory molest and classed as child abuse and your 20 year old bf would be in jail!

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imagine, she where already dating a guy of 20yrs as at 2006 meaning 2010 she wil date 28yrs old

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imagine, she where already dating a guy of 20yrs as at 2006 meaning 2010 she wil date 28yrs old

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what's the point? why are folks still giving her advice now? She's probably 19 or 20 now. LMAO!!!

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LOL

Na true oh, she don already old well well.

Hahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!

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Mak una go fain bera job nah. D person wey post dis go dey 19 yrs nw, nawa o abeg mak una no dey cary old topics com here.

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My dear,

Sincerely speaking, a 5 year gap is very okay between couples.But , in your case,it is NOT OKAY!

Take no offense, but you are still a ''baby'' and you should not be in a relationship ESPECIALLY with an adult.

If you were already an adult,then we won't even be having this conversation.

If you ask me,I will say, it's dangerous.

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PEOPLE sef this topis is 3yrs old who is is the person that brought it up again that person must av been bored out of their mind most of us posting gan whuld not av registered in nl by 2006 the poster herself whuld be old enugh to make her own decisions and wuld av 4gotten this thread abeg nairalanders let this topic die its old there are other sections apart from romance section in niaraland let xplore instead of sitting on the same topic abi

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The age gap isn't too big, no.

What is not right though, is that you're a minor. At 15, you shouldn't be dating anyone at all!

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Its wrong caus eu ar eunderage. Please dont date untill u reach 21.

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the girl is no longer 15 , her post was around 2006 lol

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l notice your screenname is latina, if you're latina l don't think this is the right forum for you b/c of diff cultures, diff values-but wait till your 18 at least and ask your mother first before advertising yourself on a public forum even though you think is online still it is not that private.

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i want to ask the guys here, CAN U REMEMBER WHAT YOU DID WHEN U WERE 15??

cause i cant !

what on earth would a girl of 15 be doing with a bf??

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But why the hullabaloo? Women always start early. Naturally,quite earlier than boys.Sometimes the girls don't achieve much in education or otherwise and turn around and  start setting standards for who wants to marry them.

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If u'v got height close to him and matured enough to handle yourslef i think it's alright. Some guys like very younger and shorter girls so they could control them easily because of their experience in life, they know far better than young girls they date. They know words and things to say to make u do what u don't. Some uses and jilts. If u discover ur relationship with this guy isn't going perfectly well you most times feel unhappy at the end of the day with him, u'v done something that u think it's negative then it's assumed he's just a gimmick trying to control u. But if u see it's going well with both of u, everything is alright then. Some men find it hard to talk to and control women within their ages so they look for very young controllable ones. This happens majorly in this part of the country due to corrupt minds from understandings.

Whenever he tells u to do something and ur nervous, don't. Always do what u know is right. Handle urself the right way.

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@ topic

Moral wize. . . itz wrong!!!

buh itz not a new thing!!!

know of sum1 dat eventually got married 2 her high school sweetheart,

she stil wearz d ring she waz given @14!!! can u beat dat!!

nywyz thingz work out differently for different people!!!

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Her being logged in isn't the issue for the now. you know how many Indecency films she dey watch a day?

Do u know the type of phone she uses, perhaps a worker can't even afford her kind of phone.

Any way i blame your parents more [i][/i]cos dem dey help spoil una. Pls follow ur heart my dear.

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@Poster

who logged you into the ROMANCE section on nairaland?dat person should be Dam slapped!

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as long as you both are okay with it, and you are able to generate a clear understanding in your interaction, pls, go ahead.

dreamworks4real@yahoo.com

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Everything about it is very wrong, cos a man will sing some melody into your ears that you wont be able to think, read or behave well, so why dont wait till you are really of age, cos you dont wanna make a man mess up ur head oh.

Just wait till u can make better decision, cos even the man at 20 dont know too much abt love, what will he do if u mistakenly get belle? can he provide for you and the baby?

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i tire 4 u girls of nowadays, instead of u to tell her the correct thing to do u are encouraging her, nahwaaaaaaaaaa ooooooooooooooooooo

sweet heart, at 15 i expect you to face ur studies seriously dont give room for anybody to destroy ur future.

guys of today are very desperate, they are now catching them young.

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@ topic,

damn,na wao,you should be in school.

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Dear u are to young 4 wat u r tinking. @15 u should be thinking of ur studies and not dating.

WHAT DO U KNOW ABT LOVE?Even d 20 yrs old boi?Pls dr u have better priorities out there.

There is time 4 evertin.Don't jump in so that u don't jump out.

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i mean luv and respect, maturity has nothin to do with age it depends all on the individual ,

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it doesnt matter as long as you both respect eachother wot the heck, the girl is 15 not 5, nd our "culture" is too judjemental

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until you are 18, people over 18 will always be too old for you

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GOSH! WHO REGISTERED U ON NAIRALAND?

U ARE A KID FOR CRYING OUT LOUD! DONT U KNOW U ARE UNDER AGED? MY FRIEND GO AND READ UR BOOK AND STOP THINKING ABOUT PE*IS AT 15.

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You are both children!

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y is dia so much filthy talk on Nairaland? dia's a lot of idleness in d land definitely. who says u r 15? wia is d proof?

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its weong. u shouldn't be thinking about stuffs lik that now. u should be thinking about something positive rather than a bf issue

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Five years difference is not a big deal. But u are too young to get involved in a boy/girlfriend relationship now wait until u are atleast 18.

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Young girl dats very wrong! av u ever had of "PUPPY LOVE" thats what you are into and as for the guy he is committing a crime known as "CHILD ABUSE". Common on Teen, read your books and forget about them Wolves in sheep clothings (Guy) they are full of Craps and Shits. they jus wana use you and toss you like some piece of cabbage into the trash bin. BE WISE

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Wonder shall never end! How can a 15 year old gal be so obsessed with love affairs rather than her education. My dear, that is no love but childs play and I wish u don't suffer from what you may find difficult to explain to fellow nairalanders. Thread softly my dear little sister!

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But this issue don expire since last year na.

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At 15 you have a boyfriend already, girl just go and concentrate on your studies first before you think of a relationship.

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Thing to note. A relationship need not be sexual. For me, there's nothing wrong in having a boyfriend @ 15, it just shouldn't go way off the top, if you know what methinks.

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Dis matter shld nt b up 4 debate,its so annoying.

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15 wht? u r way 2 young 2 start tinking of a relationship nw,so tak advice n face ur studies.

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but u hopin a 15 yr old dies young of AIDS

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@henry007

condom?!! You're hoping a 15 year old girl is using a condom?

Ha! God has died!

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