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I'm 27, She's 16: Should I Disvirgin Her?

i'm 27, i love this girl but she's just 16.i've decided to be faithful to her but the sex urge comes at times. she's a virgin. should i go ahead n disvirgin her?

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For one it’s not so much about the age difference. Yes, she is just a child, regardless of the fact she may look very sexy. Her body and her mentality are not ready for such relations yet. But it is more about your morals and religion. The Bible tells us that any sex outside of marriage is sin. Are you married to her? That is the question to ask. If not, you should not disvirgin her regardless of her age.

Relations are not just about sex. They involve your entire being: your soul and spirit. Just think of the consequences sex would have for you and for her.

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27 year old man with a 16 year old girl

Please call the cop

JAIL

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If a guy do it for your sister at that age,will u like it? For God sake,leave this girl and look for mature girl.even if she want it,u should sit her down and advice her.

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Niggiz please, this is an old thread lol why are you still getting mad at this dude?lol

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Go Ahead And Disvirgin her nah. Bloody Paedo. At your age, you no dey shame?

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Agbaya. There aren't any 27 year old WOMEN in 9ja again abi? Why stop at 16? 10 years nko?

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Having sex with any female below 18 is despoil.

The celebrated Nollywood actress Omotola Jalade- Ekeinde was abused by the man who later married her when she was only 16 or 17.

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it won't b funny 2 hear,dat after d whole show,u nw felt as if u don't really lv ha again,definitely u lv ha b'cs of dat,if u truly lv ha,let ha b, till dt day of ur wedding n let ha present u d best gift eva,n if u ar in a haste,go print ur wedding card.lol

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u better uterlise the opportunity before it pass u

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@ Poster:

First of all:

1) I don't believe that you are 27

One thing I have noticed is that Africans compared to Americans seem to be "much more mature."  Your environment grows you up a lot faster than the environment in the U.S.

It is my firm belief that you are lying to us on NL.  You are not 27 and if you are 27, you made this thread up.  A 27 year old African male already knows not to ask a "remedial" question that is sooo obviously "NO."

What is bothersome about your question is not that,"Should you marry her first."  Or approach her family for her hand in marriage now and then be allowed to marry her once she graduates from school.  But you are on NL asking 'US' if it is alright for you to have statutory r.ape with a female child. It sounds as if you don't have younger sisters.

Should you dis-virgin her - that is your question.

Did you finish school?  Or did you attend?  Why is the disconnect going on here with you?  I can't seem to wrap my head around this question.  It is sooo odd.  hmmmmmmmm (trying, trying, )

Nope - I still can't figure it out.

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3 years had passed,poster did not come tell us what finally went down.the girl is 19 now.many come here and lie then attack peeps pouring out their mind.lol.

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My fellow N_landler let me use this opportunity to share mine. Have being dating this girl for a couple of months now,i'm 29 she is 18 which means 11yrs older.She is like a small girl to me= ,making love to her is like child abuse what can i do?

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so why are u commenting

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Oga no touch dat thing oooohhhh.

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I hope by now he's behind bars.

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Almost 3years later no advice needed here again.

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Another Yerima in da house!haba uncle boogy if na your sis na so u go allow anoda guy boogy am?,abeg dnt let your boogy control you,use ur head!

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u need to be flogged seriously

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Fast and pray, its like you arent hearing the Holy Spirit again, If you love her as you say, fast and pray!!! How did you manage to fall for a child in the first place? Is she your house help? Maybe she doesnt even want to, maybe her circumstances is causing her to draw close to you.

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I know you had already taken your decision and nothing could 've changed that, but the repercussion is wat you shd wait 4, either good or bad. Must every relationship even involve s3x? Is a weird world we live in!!!!!!! God 've mercy on us. Come Lord Jesus and take your people home. Amen.

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@op carry on gal r ment 2receive any rod in deir Kitty-Cat as far as dey ve reach d age of manstration.i knw of a gal dt was disvirgin at age of 8yrs by a guy of 18.so carry on nd b d first 2 register deir.

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would you prefer yerima or osama bin laden 2 disvirgin ur sister?>,

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As weird as it sounds I know of a girl who got divirgined at 17 by a guy who was 40 when we were in 100 L

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you are mad,  u mean should you ra-pe her,

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In civilized society, I'll say go ahead and you'll end up in prison. But then,

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You nor dey shame? at 27 u dey date 16 years old girl. dis na proper child abuse. u nor know say u don reach to marry? na una dey spoil all this small small girls so. if their mate ask them out them go say the guys them nor reach because na chairman joystick them take start to dey Bleep.

Bros abeg leave the small girl na u suppose to dey advised her.

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You nor dey shame? at 27 u dey date 16 years old girl. dis na proper child abuse. u nor know say u don reach to marry? na una dey spoil all this small small girls so. if their mate ask them out them go say the guys them nor reach because na chairman joystick them take start to dey Bleep.

Bros abeg leave the small girl na u suppose to dey advised her.

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You nor dey shame? at 27 u dey date 16 years old girl. dis na proper child abuse. u nor know say u don reach to marry? na una dey spoil all this small small girls so. if their mate ask them out them go say the guys them nor reach because na chairman joystick them take start to dey Bleep.

Bros abeg leave the small girl na u suppose to dey advised her.

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my man be wise are you another yerima ?

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Try not to be silly dude.If someone walked up to you and asked if they could disvirgin your 10year old sister you would be okay with it abi? leave that girl alone! If you can't control your sexual urges,let her go, wacky man!

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"I'm 28, She's 17 and carrying my baby. I shouldn't have disvirgined a child."

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yes u can, there's nothing wrong. once u are thru, u can look for a five year old girl too, or u go to the hospital and look for a newly born

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@boogy-you really dissaploint me you dont even posses the element 'shame' by coming to this public forum for advice you are AGBAYA.someone like you should not blame yerima and that girl will not have finsh her secondary skul education and you are distracting her you realy bleeped up.why cant you let her parent to know you are dating their child.you better respect yourself and break up the relationship a real AGBAYA

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Hi to everyone, Mamas` an daddies, please stop judging each other. I think what should be done by u all is updating your moral value bank and taking cognizance of the evolution of human values.

It is easy for each and every of you to stand on a pedestral and cast all that judgments, slangs and insults at him only because of the fact that he has been honest and courageous enough to express himself and ask for advice.

He could as well have done it without ever seeking anybody`s opinion! Why do u think he came here on the forum to inquire opinions ?

So please look at your selves, think about your own lives before ever opening your mouths to talk , and to judge.

Mr man as for what is of the question, I THINK NO YOU SHHOULDN`T DISVIRGIN HER. I`m almost in the same situation with you: I`m 24 and she`s 15. She`s a virgin and my hormones are longing for the sex thing. Bro I`ve got to be truthful to you; it wouldn`t be fair that you sex the girl. She is not morally ready, she`s definitely not mature enough. It would be like Molesting a lady or sleeping with an unconscious person. Its as though hulk vs bugs bony. Its indeed a hard situation but no one forces you in. Nothing good comes easily that’s a law. If u love her then let her grow. I didn`t say “go” I said “grow”.If u let her go it breaks her heart and why should you break her heart when you claim to love her? Don`t give that false image of men that they can`t do without sex. Avoid situations that can stimulate sexual desire, do sports, watch cartoons and funny movies, if you believe in God then pray, but Be patient, it isn`t easy but its your choice… your choice… its all left to you.

But keep in mind that “ what goes round comes back around” and the return always hurts worse than the original… if you do it then be prepared for the return.

What you should bare in mind is that there is no age for love and there is no age to love. I know of people who never dated any other partner other than their first love.

I also know of couples where there is a 13-15 year difference, which is even greater than that of your situation.

Don`t listen to clowns who say you should absolutely go with persons of your age when they themselves date younger or older than their ages.

If she`s yours, then a little patience will do no harm to your relationship.

Kiss but don`t sex

Peace bro…

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this noise is too much over this issue alot of gals got disvirgined at 16.i hope she really is a virgin soory just dat lots of lies ard these days.since u had to come to this forum to ask this your conscience is obviously troubling you.down the line she may not even want you again and you may not even want her again so if you are troubled y are you trying to disvirgin her.leave the gal alone,when she is 19 come back for her whether she b virgin or not you will still like her if you are for real.

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Sweet 16, pls re u d younger broda 2 yerima?.my dead grandma is a virgin, so na una dey spoil all these smally useles girls wey dey find prick?

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^^^no mind all dis online fakers.16y.o na pikin? sum of dem dey nak 15-17y.o steady.my only grouse na d age diff.for dat, bone.d gap 2 much

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^^^no mind all dis online fakers.16y.o na pikin? sum of dem dey nak 15-17y.o steady.my only grouse na d age diff.for dat, bone.d gap 2 much

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^^^no mind all dis online fakers.16y.o na pikin? sum of dem dey nak 15-17y.o steady.my only grouse na d age diff.for dat, bone.d gap 2 much

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she should be 18 by now right??

done it yet??

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why are we sounding as if we are in Europe, abi no bi 9ja we dey again, 16yrs girl for 9ja presently don over ripe na, we should only advice this guy not to spoil this innocent girl who has hold her self up to this stage for her parents, my brother abeg just leave the girl for the fear of God but say she never ripe to shop no bi 4 9ja that one na 4 Europe

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I was in the same situation some years back,same age difference.But instead of trying to sleep with her,i called her every night and make sure she reads her book and i ask her question on the subject.She made her papers at 1st sitting.

Im now her role model and she still seeks advice from me on every issue in her life.She is now in OAU doing fine.

So please poster dont do it, make her a better person.

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Find a beta thing 2 think about and stop thinking about how 2 disvirgin another man's daughter

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Boogey(man),a 16 year old girl should be in high school or even finished-depending on when she started so if you love her encourage to focus on her studies instead of intimacy.[color=#006600][/color]

but if u knw u cnt control ur shot middle n ur intimacy thin is driving u crazy, den i cn recommend u 2 go n f***ck ash****wo is it only cost u money n save d gals virginity.

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Please i beg u in the name of god don't do it, hold ur feeling and advice her like ur kid sister if you hav one,because u won't be happy if some else does dat to your sister please don't,don't do it.

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She's 18 now brah, get your rox on all night long if you wanna.

Break shorty's back, brah

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^^^^^ 2yrs later, na when make him no do am?

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wud u like someone to that to ur teenage sister?

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