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I Really Like this Girl - Should I Ask Her Out?

I do have a little shyness that creeps up sometimes but I usually don't have a problem with it. This girl that I know of only from her work. I visit her work rather freguently because it's a gym/rec center. She teaches some sort of kids thing, and I will chit chat with her about random crap. I really like her, and have for sometime.

I would like to know what some of you think I should do? Should I just straight up, confront her and ask her out? Talk with her more and build some sort of friendship? A friendship would be better than nothing, but I want to get her to notice me more.

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tell her how you feel before it's too late. time waits for nobody.

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some english scholars dey 4 da yard inside ooooooo

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You really do believe in the eficacy of alcohol!

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one of my friends was in your shoes some years back, tell u what he did. to conquer his shyness, he got drunk, got a friend to drive him to the girl's place. it turned out that the girl really had the hots for him and was patiently waiting for him to ask her out. the only problem was that when he got sober he could not remember whether the girl said yes or no. to hedge against that i suggest you put your cell phone on "voice-record" so that you can replay your conversation afterwards. Goodluck!

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do wht ur heart tell u

4 al u knw, she fancy's u 2oooooooo

GO BOY!!!!

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do wht ur heart tell u

4 al u knw, she fancy's u 2oooooooo

GO BOY!!!!

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go ahead and ask her out since you like her....then get to know her and if thigs work out well i think you'll be happy!!!

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I'll advice to just be smart. Time aint waiting for anybody.

And i know you dont wanna hear something like "if you had come a week ago, you would have won"

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When i saw this topic. The first thing that came to my mind is "YES ask her out".

Yes yes.. please ask her out. You said she takes care of kids and all that, you could just go into her office with already made cardboards that has "I LOVE YOU" or "DINNER TONIGHT" or "I ADMIRE YOU"... on it. And make her get out of the office... organize the kids to hold the cardboard, and tell her to come in. That alone will at least make her agree to go on a date wit you. Then you can take things to the next level.

Shyness has nothing good in store for you. You need to get off your shell and go for what you want. You'd better hurry up before another guy steals her heart and then leaves yours broken.

Or while you are having one of your 'crazy conversations'.. just say it fastly that "would you like to have lunch/dinner with me". By fastly... i don't mean you should say it in a way that she wont even hear the[b] lunch, dinner and HAVE[/b] part. Those words should be clearly said. She should give u a chance if she also likes you. And infact even if she don't like you like you like her, she'll still agree to go wit you (if she's as nice as u say). If you play your cards right.. she might fall for you.

Shy guys have great ideas on how to ask a girl out. But they just don't have GREAT confidence on how to "spit out the Ideas they have".

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YOU HAD BETTER ASK HER OUT QUICK, IF NOT HER NEXT DOOR NEIGHBOUR WILL, IT COULD BE ME FOR ALL U KNOW.

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i prefer fancidiva's advice.

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Hey ! i didn't hear the guy talk about loving the girl so layi, whats about the idea of showing her he loves her.............the approach depends on what the guy wants from the lady........if he wants to date her then thats as easy as ABCD.....moreso you guys have already got talking so ask her to some place reasonable( like a restaurant, the pictures, a party, a ride home e.t.c ) after your chat oneday.

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just be your self and ask her out on a date.

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Firstly, get it into ur head that there is no sure way to get a girl except its a doll. She's human just like you (with her own taste).

Secondly, be yourself. Dont use special chat lines cos her response could distabilize you. Sell urself to her. Be sincere (even about ur imperfections).

The best advise i can give you is to become her friend first. Take it slow. Action speaks louder than voice. Ur friendship gives you the opportunity to show her u love her (by the words and things u do). Its the best 'method' cos it helps you build confidence while at d same time 'endears' u to her.

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