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I slept with a married man and feel guilty

How to behave yourself with married man? How to hide your relations from your husband? Read the article to learn advices about it.

Love to married man is a notorious tragedy. Small quantity of similar stories ends with man's divorce and new marriage with former mistress. Almost always the man is in relations with two beloved. The mistress suffers, being deceived by hopes. Moreover, she often thinks: ‘I feel guilty for sleeping with a married man’. What to do if it has occurred after all?

I slept with a married man and feel guilty

There are lucky women for whom such relations are a source of pleasure. They just enjoy meetings with married man and don't turn into suffering women. How they manage to do it?

I slept with a married man and I feel guilty – what to do?

  • The first and most important thing without what meetings with married man turn into hell sooner or later is an ability to control your feelings. Having fallen in love, you become defenseless in hope to take a man away from family, and you lose any chances of long and happy relations.

I slept with a married man and I feel guilty – what to do

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If you feel that you cease to notice other men and that you would like to spend all free time with married, stop these relations, without listening to man's arrangements. There is no place for love to him in your life: it is a destructive way, which will lead only to despair and lost years. In the world there are a lot of free men who can be loved. You will forget this love, and later be proud of this decision. Relations with married man can be only for sex and pleasant pastime.

  • Forget about favorite perfume, shower gels, color lipstick and other things for body which can leave a tag on the man. It is very easy to guess a smell of other woman. It is unlikely that the man will need suspicions from his wife: he will prefer to finish with you than to risk his family’s stability.

I feel guilty for sleeping with a married man

  • Don't add him in friends list on social networks. If he already is in your friends, it is better to remove him in order to avoid troubles. Don't leave any comments of his statuses, photos and other.

If it seems to you that it is impossible to find you, you are wrong: the wife who has suspected the husband of treason is capable of many things. You will never learn that your new dear acquaintance, with whom you lovely talk in chat is his wife. If you value communication with the man, forget about his existence on the Internet.

  • You shouldn't ask and listen to his stories about the wife. If he begins to complain of her, stop the man if you don't want to be the third person in their relations.

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By the way, when you begin the relations with married, discuss at once, for what both of you need this communication. And if something doesn't suit you, report about it immediately.

  • It is possible to wait in relations with married lover only for what you have agreed about at once. If the man has told you that he won't leave the family, don't wait for something bigger. Even if you want to believe that it is a lie, behave so as if it will never occur. If something changes, the man will tell you about it. There is nothing worse in relations with married man than expectation of actions, about which the man doesn't even know.

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  • Never call him first. If you decided to do it, accurately and in advance speak about time when you can call the man so that it didn't become a problem for him.

Never ring him in the evening, weekends and holidays. Don't send messages. The man will date with the mistress with pleasure, if she doesn't stir his habitual life. You have to be a pleasure source, not additional tension. To the married man is so difficult to date you without excess problems.

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I mean married men your institution. One of them can deliver you a lot of problems of a special kind, if you engage in communication. However, the discussion of these problems already navyazlo in the teeth, so not going to touch on here. I, at least, without hostility attitude to sinful married men (and for the reasons mentioned above, and knowing those whom these poor fellows should be faithful). Having worked for many years in the institution before her marriage, I'm on my own experience, what can face the girl, contacting a married man - no matter how deep his affection for her.

Need to say right - which side to approach the matter, - a married man is much more difficult to maintain a love relationship than a woman can imagine. It seems that he's just a little nervous, crossing the threshold of her apartment. In fact he has to plan and to combine, to lie and pretend as much as four days to meet with his mistress. Men lay on the altar their love affair money, time, energy, honesty. You, unmarried women, there are lots of advantages that you don't even suspect. You don't need to get out, no need to lie (that most men don't like). You have no sense of guilt in relation to the person who you love. When the gap happens, you can, if you want every corner to shed bitter tears for this reason. He won't have the right to complain that he no longer enjoys your favor.

You both pay in different currencies, - but his contribution more. It is the practical side of your relationship and the awkwardness when the explanation with homemade. You pay for the happiness of your soul.

I'm not going to dissuade you from an intimate relationship with married men, but a few tips and philosophical views on the problem I dare to Express to women sleeping with someone else's husband.

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Student
Answered 9 months ago.

I think that if a married man or woman begin to build a relationship on the side, he or she must be aware that their family life was going to the uttermost end. Immediately notify the object of its affection. And even not only explain, but better - bring evidence that would once and for all confirmed the fact of the break in relations with the former life. People who fall into this trick of deception themselves to blame when there is vigilance and confidence in their own hardness, nothing like that will happen, and you will never be odd man in the relationship.

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Newbie
Answered 9 months ago.

Oh, relationships with married men (and women) are very, very undesirable. Firstly, it's not humane towards his wife. Just put yourself in her place, how would you feel if your husband has slept with another. Second - this is a great sin. No need to succumb to passion, to ruin both his and someone else's family. If it happened, and you did not know that the man is married, and it happens more often, try to no longer communicate with that person. Even so, if you will, and common future, remember that a man can betray you just as betrayed his wife.

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Answered 9 months ago.
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