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If Told 2 4give One, Who Would U Choose? Ur Bf & Ur Best Friend Caught In D Act

Hypothetical question on my part I'd say, What if you were told to forgive either your boyfriend or your best friend caught in the very act, who would you choose? Emphasis is laid on forgiveness people!

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My girlfriend is my best friend, she knows me inside out and I think it should be so for everyone. But thats my opinion. So in this case, if I catch her, err. . . What can I say? Lol

But, assuming that my best friend is someone else, male or female, and is caught with her then its a different ball game. It was mutual consent, so I will forgive them both but thats the end. The best friend will be kicked out of my life permanently, the world can never be enough for the two of us.

However I will become the now-ex-girlfriend's platonic friend. I will start by having a long friendly gist with her and then finish by telling her its over. But I will never let her escape from my life, rather over time I will keep alternating between being very sweet to her and being utterly nasty to her, even when she has a new boyfriend, so as to let the pain simmer into her soul and make her want to commit suicide. Infidelity is the something Im not nice and generous about!

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I'll 4give dem but dats d end of my r/ship wif dem cuz dey ar capable of killing me.

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I wouldn't forgive either.

Why forgive one, and not the other? As long as the act was mutual, I'd reckon they deserved each other. I'd put them out of my life for good.

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my best friend: my girl, d one I share all my secrets with, the one person I can tell my man problems to. The one that cheers me up when my man is acting up.

My boyfriend: d love of my life, the one I look forward to spending the rest of my life with.

Both of them doing it behind my back?

it'll be hard to forgive either.

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Sex is a physical thing. It could be borne out of lust. If she feel sorry about it and promise never to do it again. To err is human to forgive is divine. We all wrong ourselves sometimes.

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Honestly!! I would want to 4give both.but i'll 4give ma boyfriend cos he'll keep showing me who my friends r.as 4 d bestfriend,she was never ma friend.

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it would be a lot easy to forgive my boyfriend rather than my bestie cos boys come and go but friends esp best friends r meant to stick with u till d end. . . she obviously isnt a good friend and she must'v had d opportunity to say no nd we'v known each other 4 so lng so y would she jeopardize our friendship. . . anyhow, i'll fashii both of them johr, they rn't worth it. . .

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I would 4giv my Gf jare~

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Wil 4giv dem bt they can kis ma a$& gudbye

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I will forgive and forget both of them

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For me sha, I'll forgive, emm, em, let me think jare,

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I'll forgive both of them, but they wont be part of my life any more

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I'll forgibe my Best Friend, my GirlFriend I'll kick her out!!!

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Even on your Pastor, my dear?

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U can be a victim tomorrow (forgiveness 70x7 times)

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Forgive one ke? I'd take out my anger on whoever said to forgive one.

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I will ask for their forgiveness as I am killing them!

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there is no such thing as forgiveness in this matter and if i forgive one then i HAVE to forgive the other. makes absolutely no sense to only punish one when both did the act.

you either remove them both from your life or you forgive them both!

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I will consider my best friend.

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Forgive? My Bottom would be in Jail for double homicide.

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@ebonyeyes piece of cake! Why kill for it?

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