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If U Are In My Shoe:what Will U Do?

Dis was the question my guy ask me wen he was in my place, His wedding date was just some months time. After five years of being unemployed, just got a self-employed runs he was into and his wife-to-be his ready to manage with him.So, one of those ladies he was sampling then but could not marry for some reason known to him came to him now that she just won an America visa lottery and she filled my guys name as a beneficiary(in fact her hubby).Dis was done without my guys content and before the breakup, My guy need advice since he his not employed here and sees this as an opportunity to beta his life, What do i tell him cos am short of word, House pls help!!!

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Note that the VISA girl put his name as the husband. She might do this out of love and 2. She is the one that came to inform him. which implies that she is still very much interested in the guy and ready to roll on with him.

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He should allow the lady know his stand, since the lady put her name there, withouth this man the visa will not be given to the lady, he should tell the lady that they not going to marry,for visa not to be wasted.

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I think he should follow his heart based on love, right now, he should put off all material things off his mind to enable him make a proper decision cos winning a visa lottery is not a guarantee to wealth.

Let him search within himself and follow who he really loves. Meanwhile, why would the visa girl put his name as her husband in the first place? I bet she wld ve to pay for telling lies. Your friend shouldnt use the visa thing to cloud his judgement.

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Your friend should be very careful here. That his ex won the visa lottery is no guaranty that they will both make it to the States, they have to go through a very rigorous interview at the embassy if they claim they are married. They should be able to prove to the Consular officers at the embassy that they are genuinely married, add this to the over N200,000 they'll both spend each for medical tests and interview fees which are non refundable. Lets say they eventually make it to the US, he should be ready to sacrifice the next 2-5yrs of life trying to find his feet in the United States. He should decide if he is willing to gamble with his lean resources and do minimum wage jobs in the US for the next 3yrs.

Make im consider these facts. Finally sha the choice is his

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It is a no win situation for them both, she needs him in order to get her visa because she stupidly put his name as her husband.

The guy's love for his fiancée will be put to test here.

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Dats d problem wit u guys u are more interested in following the shadow instead of the real thing.A lady you dumped b4 so u want to go back to ur poo?!!!!!!.MIND U THE GRASS ISNT ALWAYS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE.

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It depends on how much he love his fiancee. If he would be happy wit her or wit the visa girl. Besides why did he break up wit visa girl in the 1st place? He should make a wise decision cos it'll affect his future. . . Money is not everything.

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Now we need Kola Olawuyi to resolve this. Nkan mbe!

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