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If You Are With Someone You Don't Love, Is It Ok To Cheat?

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I'm in the same situation - she's a really sweet person that I love as a person but I'm just not in love with her. And I just don't see myself marrying her. Btw, I'm 24.

It would hurt her too much if I broke up with her (she's 25), for really no good reason. Things seem to be great on the surface and she's really quite a catch, just not the one for me.

Anyways, I've let myself catch a little fun on the side, and I don't feel guilty about it

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There's no way you can be with someone you don't love in the first place.

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Thanks dear -

@y'all: sagacious has said it all

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It's better you let go, what are you still wating for? Well ! maybe you can learn how to love ,try to do your statistic and find out the reason why love is missing and i guess your partner might be crazy about you , try to avoid comparing any of your admirer with him/ her , If he/she is the best for you, force yourself to love by creating a kind of intimacy between yourself and imagine he/she is the best among million .If you practice this and it doesn't work , better break up and carry on with life , don't cheat, ok !

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Nope get out and fast b4 u do something really silly dat way u keep ur dignity

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the word "cheat" is not the best word to use here, since you claim you don't have any feelings or ever liked the girl in questioned. i would advice be more matured about the whole thing and let the girls mind be at rest, cause if you let her go deep with you and you eventually break her heart, you own heart will surely be broken.

Use words like, babe! listen what am about to say may sound silly to you but i believe it the best." i don't think this thing would work." but don't use words like, "i no like u again." like some of our pple here. be straight and matured about it. so that she or he will not feel the hurt to much. "do unto others as others would do unto you"

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That's not an excuse to cheat,there's no point been with someone you don't love.

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if u're with sum1 u dont luv, leave

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dumb question if you don't love a girl then break up with her rather than cheating. what ve u got to lose?? is she helping you financially ?

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if u dont love the person then u shouldnt be with them

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No it's not ok. But it's ok to let the person know you don't love him/her.

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foolish question, why be with the person if u dont love the person. it aint like u are married that u cant back out.

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it's ok to tell the person u dont like him

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am gonna tell him i dont like you and u are not my type

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well first of all why are you with him/her if you dont love them??

its better for you to leave (you cannot force urself to love someone) so leaving is better than to cheat,

leave him, then you can do whatever ya want

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OK D TITLE PUT ME OFF AT FIRST BUT I HAD2 SAY SUM'

y d heck wuld u wana b wid sum1 u didnt love in d first place and no itz not rite

i didnt read wat ova ppl thot but if ne one actually thinks itz ite, hmmm well wat comes round goes round

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yes pls, whats are the answers to reniks guestions?

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Y wud u be wit som1 u don't love?R u married or dating?If u dont love d person its more honourable 2 leave than cheat .

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