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If You Knew Your Best Friends Bf Had Cheated On Her Would You Tell Her?

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oh yeah you are right but i will never try to base a friendship on lies. if that girl decides to stay with her cheating bf and hate me then so be it. my conscience is clear and i wouldnt need this type of friends in my life.

if she expect me to lie about what i saw/know then we are not ready to be friends. this is what i would expect from her and therefore if she cant be THAT honest with me then this friendship is pointless.

men are different because we have ego issues and the fact that your boys know about it makes it even more difficult to stay with this girl. some would stay but at least they will know from my side what i discovered. they can use the information as best they see fit.

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thats the thing

women are different from men, some women are soo silly, they will stay wiv the guy and u will end up looking the fool!!!! some gurls are even worst! they will no and not tell u just to be spiteful! so i guess its fair to say it depends on the girl, if shes sad and desperate then leave her, if she's smart and quick then tell her.

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Wat u don't no won't kill you.

G won' tell

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IF i witnessed (not second hand info). . .The scenario. . i.e. saw her walk into a motel with the other guy. . .or something else suggesting that there was more to the relationship than just plain friendship. . .Then YES. . .I owe it to my BRUV, to let him know what i saw.

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If there is anything I respect it is the ability to keep secrets. I would not say a word! I might call the cheating party and scold , but tell? Whats the essence? In matters like this poke nosers end up being caught in the middle. They will probably make love and make up some days after but you will remain a permanent enemy, all because you could not keep tour trap shut.

Not everything eye see mouth go yarn.

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Would you want someone to tell you if they saw your gf/bf cheating on you?

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You said best friend abi? Yes I would. The mistake people make is telling someone who is just a friend, neighor or co worker.

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Hmmm Conspiracy of Silence better to tell then shut ur mouth,trust that ain't snicthing.

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she probably doesnt want to know

ask her rhetorically

hey imagine if ur man was cheating woulfd u want to know??

her answer will determine whether u shuld!

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Gossiping.mind your business~MYB

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i will definitely tell her after all one good turn deserves anoda am saying this dat is if u are very close like the question said " best frnd" not just a frnd wat do u think

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@poster

i would tell him in a heart beat and he will believe me and dump her stinking a$$. . . . . . . . . and i wouldnt expect any less from him if i was in his situation.

how can i even sit there and call my self a best friend if i cant even tell him the truth. thats what friends are for.

gf come a dime a dozen, real friends are there for life!

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Hard 1.

Ok if u do its calld GOSSIP

& if u dont its calld BETRAYAL

So which is d best opt??

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nope . . . .

wetin sef

if you tell na trouble

if you no tell na trouble

wetin man go come do na

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I would definitely tell her. unless ofcourse i am the other gf of her bf.

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The wise words of Solomon. Never get yourself involved in what does not concern you. How is this your personal business? Do you know the one she has done? If they make up, na your name them go take settle. Ignorance is bliss, leave them alone before they rename you 'Amebo'.

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