My question goes in to 2 categories, to the men and to the women.
As an advanced and matured woman, she got married through a long distance relationship. For the few years she was waiting for the completion of her hubby's doc. to come over join her.
As they said body no be firewood, knowing or unknowing, loneliness or unlonliness, she got impregnated by another man she was seeing over there she is.
She is left with 3 options in this case.
1. Termination( which can she cant consider to be the right option for her due to some reasons)
2. Telling her husband the truth and asking for his forgiveness, and
3. Travelling to him just after few weeks of pregnancy and sleeping with him to transfer the responsibility to him.
If you were in her shoes what would you chose to do.
For the men:
You are in Nigeria, without even a Job, struggling to make ends meet, and suddenly you met with a western lady online. Either by love or lust she came down to Nigeria and got married with you and went back to process your papers to join her. Jst almost at the completion of your papers she gave you a breaking news of few weeks pregnancy by another man over there. Despite that she still want you as her husband and explain how much she loves and still wanna be with you, asking for your forgivness.
1. Will you forgive and accept her back with the pregnancy?
2. Does she still worth you travelling all the way to overseas just to be with her? or
3. Would you ask her to F.U.CK off with whatever arrangement both are making to leave Naija.
What would you if you were in this Man's shoes.
NB. Sincere and matured response pls.