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If You Were In My Shoes,could You Handle It?

I was engaged to be married and I called it off because it wasn't true love. I actually saw someone from my past and fell in love with him. It's funny because he is nigerian and I was his first. I saw him for the first time after five years and I couldn't believe it was him. Long story short,we got caught in the moment and were intimate. I instantly fell for him!I thought we were going to cut lose all of our baggage and hook up but it didn't work out like that. He acts so strange and I can't tell if he wants me or not anymore,but I can't allow anyother person to get close to me because I love him and want him.Should I be patient or move on?

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I strongly advice that u wait for him. If u clock 40 and he hasn't come for u, then u can move on ok.

Make sure u wait o

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i went through something similar. somehow somehow i ... ok i think what you should do is give him the gift of toasting you that you took from him. seems he is old school like me . he has to feel in control and that he is the one getting the relationship . ok it might not make much sense . just step back inch by inch while still showing care then he'll be stepping forward too and very soon it'll balance out. but the relationship like all others still has a chance of failure .

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hello dear,

I really like your article.

I want to be your friend.here is my email.

vchiazor@yahoo.com

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just 4get about him, what about d other guy y not make up with him?

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i agree with cute -Bottom , your jerk( excuse my French) 0f an ex-boyfriend just wanted a Good NOOKY. pls get over him,move -on life is too short to be hung-up on one Guy.

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why what??

what are you up to?? all your previous mails have made it clear that you're a guy

or you just pasted someone else's pic??

is this post really from a girl??

then i guess the question would have to be , are you lesbo??

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@cute-Bottom

i love u

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@ Tanicarr

I am sure he is not the only one you broke up with and then got you laid, please find the others, and u said u cut off a engagement, please find him o, but dont wait for five years o, because by then, men might be extinct o.

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oh so Ferlie is now female?

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looks like someone is depraved.

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make i come - inside u?

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I will slap u o!

Smart man + smart woman = romance

Smart man + dumb woman = affair

Dumb man + smart woman = marriage

Dumb man + dumb woman = pregnancy

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^ That's the kinda pathetic immaturity that most Nigerian men have that I speak of.

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you cheapened yourselve - u were away from him for five years and u expect him to still be single or want u for keeps when women boku everywhere? Just go wash your Kitty-Cat with sand paper. Shio.

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when u say strange, wat do u mean?

maybe he wanted to get into ur pants and not into u like that.

i'll say u give him a break and just move on.

if he comes around and comes back to u, good for u, if he doesn't don't be lost. . but move on

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are you Nigerian?

as for him acting strange, better just let him go as it's obvious he's not mature. I'm sure he wasnt acting strange before you two became intimate.

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