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If You Were In My Shoes What Would You Do?

Please my younger sister is in love with my girl’s brother but it’s very obvious the boy is not in love with her because I know his numerous girls. I met my girl through my younger sister, and I feel telling her to retrace her steps could make her feel I don’t want her happiness, I don’t want her to be used and dumped because I’ve never done that to anyone’s sister. If you are in my shoes what will you do?

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Him being a womanizer is not a yardstick for u to condemn him,he might fall in love with ur sister n things could get better.Y not be a gentleman,and leave their family alone for your younger sister,else both of u will commit a taboo,which will end both of u in ur village with ur elders askin u which of d goats ear would u eat,left or right,cos its obvious dt lady wont leave him alone

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duh! she's ur sister

u have to talk to her i know how stubborn ladies can get when it comes to matters of the heart but ulld have to explain it to her that the guy is no good for her

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at one point one of you would have to beat it.

you can not be eroticaly involved with blood siblings. in your shoes i would break up with my woman because in the long range things will get nasty. just imagine if your relationship with ur woman gets so sexual and intercourse occurs.and at the same time her male LovePeddler brother entices ur sister into intercourse. that will be one big nasty stain in your familly regardless of wether u break up or not.

so, summon up ur courage and break ur relationship with ur woman. u have no control over hers.she may or maynot listen to u. thats my humble opinion.

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talk 2 ur younger sis about this, n if she fall head long wateva d rsult may be is her own probs.

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Express your reservations.Thats about all you can do.

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Talk to her not to us.

Express ur reservations about her intentions just like u've done here & leave the rest to her.

Whatever she then experiences becomes her bowl of akamu cup of tea.

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