Plz be honest in your answer
there are many people married who are HIV positive but their spouse isnt, look at MAGIC JOHNSON for example.
as for me, i would definitely run to get tested and if the test is negative go again for the next 5months hoping that i dint get it.
i will stay with that spouse as putting a blame on her etc isnt going to make it better(especially if we have kids together)
i will be 150% honest to my children about the problem from day one and hope that they learn from that unfortunate mistake.