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In A Relationship Is Honesty Always The Best Policy?

is honesty ever the best policy? when i and my boyfriend decided to be honest about straying, i found that our sexual relationship became even stronger, rite now we can even talk about the people we would like to f**k while having sex tis brilliant

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IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP, THINK MORE AND TALK LESS.

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Yes.

All it takes is a teaspoon of humor, a tablespoon full of confidence, a scoop of perseverance and a full glass of honesty, love and care. Mix it gently under warm temperature, and you'll be baking the perfect woman in your life...like I have.

~ Rizzi_Vicci

See what Ada said about honesty on

* If you plant honesty, you will

reap trust.

* If you plant goodness, you will

reap friends.

* If you plant humility, you will

reap greatness.

* If you plant perseverance, you

will reap contentment.

* If you plant consideration, you

will reap perspective.

* If you plant hard work, you will

reap success.

* If you plant forgiveness, you

will reap reconciliation.

* If you plant faith in God, you

will reap a harvest.

So, be careful what you plant now; it will determine what you will reap later…

http://www.nairaland.com/1088751/seed-honesty-must-read

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@sly

who is d we,abeg im already hunted,getit?

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Being honest in a relationship is fine but i am too jelous to hear that my boyfriend wants to shag another girl,

anyway, Viva, its fine if u are honest with ur man, have u tried role play and wearing crazy outfits? its fantastic, my dear we need book appointment to sex shop so i can show u the Ropes,

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@sly

and who is getting me hunted soon?

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okay oga sly i don chill

i doubt she will be able to resist the tempting urge to reply ( i might be wrong so never falls into temptation)

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okay oga sly i don chill

i doubt she will be able to resist the tempting urge to reply ( i might be wrong so never falls into temptation)

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You said she should stay away from you and yet you find it very difficult to get her name off ur post?

U really need to chill. . . .

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i think stalewater is one of those people

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@post

some people cant handle the truth

so maybe a lil coloured version of honesty would do

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@ sly i have told her to farewell, if that not enof hint that am not in the mood for a fight, then i dont know what is

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' stillwater, i am not in the business of putting people into boxes, for the very last time farewell

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For me, yes, the honesty is always the best policy in my relationship!

For society, hell no! That is too bad that caused high rate of divorces, domestic violences, and Molests around the world!

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@ still water no need to repeat ur self if u havent got any thing else to say

not in the mood to engage in arguments about who qualifies to be called chaffs, seeds, cobbs, tubbers, grains, nuts etc

lets agree to disagreee, i bid u farewell

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I told you earlier on that chaffs in seeds are meant to be disposed of, carted away into trash bags to where they actually belong, didn't I?

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' @still water that is the best decission you have ever made

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if every one had the same opinions, the same ideologies, the same religion , or were from the same race, etc then surely there would be no need for debates, arguments, political parties,public demonstrations the list goes on and on

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thank you omo ibo

if u truely havent strayed then i commend ur self control or loyality

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@ dodji if it is possible for a man who wanted to eat a human being to find some one on the internet that wanted to be eaten

isnt it possible there might be some one on earth who probably shares some of my ideologies

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why do pple have issues with someone's way of life. because u have and keep one partner and dont engage is some 'next' sex act does not make u perfect or better than anyone else.

u lot need to learn to respect someone's opinion

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stillwater u dont have to agree wif me but ur ignorance is nothing to be proud off

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not to say that i am always honest

i am economical with the truth sometimes being human

but if u know i know and i know that u know that i know( vice versa)

whats wrong with being honest

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i can honestly and boldy say ive never strayed.

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I believe honesty is vital cuz nuthing is hidden under da sun

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yes yes. today's mad person, tomorrow's genius

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mental instability is an illness not necessarily an abnormality

besides even people that dont run around the street Unclad can also be mentally ustable

it comes in diff forms and different manifestations

infact every one on earth is mad but in varying degrees and capacities

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@ stillwater there is no such person even the pope has somthing abnormal about him

are u afraid i might ask u what it is? poor u

failure to accept ones abnormality is like a gay man denying he is gay

are u afraid people will judge you?

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@Still water

Na your pikin be that?

The boy don chop belle full sha. Cute pikin

as for the agbaya wey tanda with am. the less said the better.

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to every saying there is an however.

Honesty is not always the best policy

experience and reality has taught me that.

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i accept that every one is not like me Stillwater

u cant however tell me that every thing about u is normal

pls tell me stillwater whet is abnormal about u, do u have any fantasies that society might condem?

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what is abnormality ?

there is nothing absolutely nothin wrong with abnormality

it just means u dont conform to sterotypes

u make ur own rules so long as ur not hurting any one

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There's nothing wrong in creating constructive posts, or is there?

If being "openminded" means exercising abnormalities I'd rather remain narrowminded!!!!!

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and what can u possibly do for me sly that no one else has done b4

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@ 4him u may class this as a silly thread but i dont so F*** off

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@ sly i dont believe in jesus nor religion

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how many men or women here can put up their hands and say they hvent had sex out side of their relationships ( probably no one especially the men)

what is wrong wif havin an open ananymous discussion about issues that most people deal with regularly.

when i say most nigerians are narrow minded some assholes think am crazy

yes i am crazy

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then make you holla at me. I go make that your down below overheat.

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my brother ,im tired tooo ,nairaland love fight chaiii

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so what if its from 4some to contant sex ( am not looking for approval)

what works for me might not work for some one else

and yes all i think of is sex sex sex and more sex

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some times i wonder if nairaland can ever be a place for constructive arguments or discussions

if honesty is not ur best policy, there is nothing wrong with admitting it after all i dont know and dont care to know the person behind the comments so long as its constructive

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nah, even hotfunmi wasnt this crass.

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this viva person sounds more and more like Hotfunmi, maybe a little more sexualized, but the underlying tone remains the same.

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maybe you shld categorise this thread as part of the "silly questions" you so often attribute to others.

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