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In Every Relationship, Who Should Call Most? Man Or Woman?

l just want to fined out who has the responsibility to call a partiner in a relationship, or should it be 50/50.

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Who should call?, anybody,depending on whom the luv shacks d most.For me,I don't enjoy voice call for long period unless for business.I tell my friends earlier to be exonerated when allegations of no calls come.I send text messages only when neccessary.Though I don't believe in calling to fulfill all righteousness cos I don't pretend.

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Well my girl call all the time even from the beginning of our relationship, cos i know she really the one in love lol but now am actually reciprocating my affection for her with several calls & text msgs cuz i love independent lady who don't believe men should always do the calling etc

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The truth is most men hate the phone and most women love it. So the guys always call a lot in the beginning when they are chasing the woman then once they got her, she has to call them more. Its just how it is, however men are better are making an effort to meet up whereas women will sit on the phone for hours and not go out. So men will make more effort to come and see you. Somehow it kind of evens out.

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!@ poster (Ollami ) pls wuts ur no

mine is 08086070014

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guyz should do d callin

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Their parents shud do d calling!

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the girls should call most of the time.

but the guy should speend long any time calling.

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the truth of the matter is dat the two people involved should always call eachother.one thing is dat once a lady decides to take d lead in callin,most guys tend 2 relax,,,,always try to give d men freedom,i assure it works cos most of dem are not worth d stress.

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Both of them should call each other.since relationship is a mutual thing,it shouldnt be a one-sided thing so that the parties involved wldnt take each other for granted.cos if d guy calls the girl more,the girl wld becum used ti it and vice-versa.though it actually depends on the people in the relationship.

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there s no fast n set rules about who should call most,and i reckon if they r both in love i gues it ll be like a competition on who calls more rather than the other way round however

when that starts being an issue in a relationship,then thats a yellow card approaching red(break up)

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@ zam u are very wright men 40% woman 60%

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I think the calling thing is not particularly meant for a boy or a girl most, girls should take the 60% of the calls.a man is always a man.don't get me wrong.

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Well, i believe some guys don't really believe that it develop relationship

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is it suppose 2 be a contest? pls if u miss ur man or woman u call, no big deal.

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Well what if its international and the girl is in the UK like and has more credit and inclination than the guy in Nigeria.

Me and my boy had an argument about this last week. I call him more and I began to wonder why he is not calling as often as he used to, he said he doesn't call many people and even his family complain about it. To me it just felt like he's lost interest in me. What do ya'll think?

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@ soulchild and others who have made comments like this,

is it an unwritten (well, now written) rule that the guy always provides the phone credit in naija? I'm just wondering because it seems to be

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that is y some ladies always xperience heartbreaks cos they tend to take we guys for granted especially when he is obviously in love with the gal. why should a guy call more than the gal? it shoulb b 50/50

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It all depends i call my guy an average of 6-8 times a day, i call to ask of anything u can think of, he calls once or twice but spends hours, all my calls put together does not amount to his.

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I think if they are in love with each other no one will even notice how many times he/she has called, so love matter when you start noticing that he/she is not calling the way you like, problem start in the relationship

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Well in my situation my man calls me alot I mean alot.

But is should be 50/50

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personally i hate it when.i do most of the calling and my calls are not returned,it makes me feel silly.i think its ok when the ratio is balanced.

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Calling? As in telephone calls? Whoever feels like calling should call, women like their men calling them all the time (am not one of them) most guys i know don't like their girls calling all the time (bondage) but i feel whoever feels like calling should call at that time and if one is waiting for the other to call and the call doesnt come through, then call up the partner and tell them to call you back

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Guys(40%) while bebes(60%). Sisters.come on, we have alot on our mind

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The woman should call more! Leave the surprising unexpected calls to the guy.

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na 50/50 d thin shuld i support.

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In this house it is me providing the credit .

But apart from that one can call as often as one likes.

If i feel that am disturbing a man by calling him then something is very wrong in that relationship.

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yea

da guy

should call ALOT!!

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It shouldn't be a competition thingy. Just cal when you gotta call and regularly too.

Though in most relationships, you find that its the guy that's always calling- either he's so in love or he's trying to impress the babe.

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It's supposed to be 50/50

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Depends on the understanding between you two

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Both Should Call but the man should call most

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in the begining when the love is still hot and 'shacking' the guy should be calling.

and when things start going south, the babe should do the calling... fair?

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well i see guyz as the head

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Yes they should be.. because they are guys.

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so guys should be the ones to use the credit most of the times, why cant ladies

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The Man should do the calling..if the lady love you.. she will always call too.. but most expecially, the guyz do the calling...

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anyone should call in a relationship doesnt matter if ur the man or the woman its 50/50

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