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In Love With My Closest Friend Sister;any Danger?

Pls, Iam really in love with my closest friend sister and i have good intentions for her, the lady in question also likes me however, i don't know how my friend will see it. But the guy knows iam a good guy. What are your views, do i go forward or withdraw? pls your good suggestions will be greatly welcome.

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i agree with iice,fink u should tell ur friend up close,face to face ur intention and c aw he reacts,d outcome of ur discussion will direct ur next move, weder 2 back off or ride on

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do not carry it on, your to immature.

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@all

I too am inlove with my close friend (only) sister, i don't want will be his brother reaction if he finds out.

She's only daughter, and there are wealthy. But, i don't want to date her because of her father's money, i got that love for her.

Should i tell him, or carrying on with the relationship till he finds out?

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@poster.

okay look at it this way, what of if you and dis chick start dating n sumwhere along the line, things fell apart.

then imagine what the new status of you and your friend would be

You: your ex babe's brother is your friend or you once dated and dumped your friends sister or maybe you intend to end your friendship with your friend if things dose not work out.

my dear the most important question that you need to ask yourself is.

Do i intend to or would I marry her on the long run? (i am sure you would not be able to answer that at least not now)

so best advice, make that sacrifice for your friend till you are perfectly sure wat u want.

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Awww but u need 2 be sure dat ur friend's sister is really so into yu b4 u make any major move.

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Then the decision is with the sister. . . . .She's a full-blown adult.

If she considers you nice enough to date. . . .I see no problem.

Although i wouldn't make such a move but you seem genuine enough.

Go for it.

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I truely Love the girl and really will never think of doing her bad because of my friendship with her brother. The brother is like my twin, we are very close. I ve also used style to ask him if his friend wants to date and marry his sister, will he allow it and he said as far his friend is anice guy,that he will certainly accept. Meanwhile, i know the girl and i like each other, and he knows iam a nice guy, should i open up and tell my guy? I never pray to loose his friendship either, i don't know how he will feel about it;his closest friend asking his sister out though the sister has graduated and a big girl too

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@POSTER- What do you want form her, do u wanna Date her, have sex with her or marry her.

i think you have to decide from the onset what you want with her on the long run.

i had 2 of my very close Friend's go after my sister when she was younger, as i told them then,

that if they just wanna use her because they say she set then, dey don't value mi friendship.

fine the girl fine, but i think sacrificing whatever you feel for your close friend's sister for his friendship, is not a bad idea (rem that in the 1st place you started having dis "feelings" because of your friendship with her brother)

My brother your freaky feeling for the chick is not worth breaking a friendhip (look at it as making a sacrifice for your friend)

my opinion and experience

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How can u know wat he thinks?i won't be surprised if u know don't know he may wnat 2 turn war against u when he finds out u wanna be-friend his dear sister(that's usually d case)hhm!just use style ask am wetin him think if 1 of his friends liked his sister & wanted 2 date her say dat u saw it on some show or somebody asked u d question,

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U have to go forward - U have come this far to express your self to NLers.

There's no going back.

Come baq to us in a fortnight and tell us wetin your eyes see.

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