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Is Anything Wrong In Living With Your Fiance ?

my friend got me thinking. she's getting married next week to a guy she has been staying with for the past 8 years. anything wrong with such idea ?

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First off how can you be engaged for 8 years? I thought engagement was a prelude to marriage.

If it's on the issue of cohabitation between partners, then it should be noted that some folks really don't dig the idea of marriage and it's formalities, some folks like Oprah have lived with their partners for years and don't care about being married. If you are engaged, then you should have fixed a date for marriage, so you don't go chill in your fiance's place for an interminable period. I have nothing against cohabitation, as it helps the partners know themselves and their flaws before marriage, but as s'mun said, it kinda takes the mystery outta marriage. To everyone his own.

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@Poster,

Unplanned childbirth, thats whats wrong.

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Nothing wrong as long as they adults. However I won't do it for selfish reasons. I want to be married to a man before I start picking after him and taking care of him and his house. Also I like my space and privacy and will like to enjoy them for a while before going to shack up with a man.

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As long she is the one moving in with me. No problem with that.

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^ thanks. I only wanted to emphasize my statement. Though have taken to the correction.

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@coolier: yeah, i pray so

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@Poster: Ur question is wrong grammatically. it should've been: IS ANYTHING WRONG IN LIVING WITH UR FIANCE? if you're in doubt, see the meaning of fiance in ur dict. oya say thank you! now back to your question: IT'S WRONG cos that's not ur husband. he's yet to be

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No. I pray they continue to be happy together.

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