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Is Beating Ur Girl/fiance Or Wife Good: Even If She Is Wrong?

hi everybody,

beating ur girl friend,fiance or ur wife is bad, but still if deserve beating isn't it ok to beat her and correct her for her wrong did?

please, i think we need to talk about it, because something jst happend and i gain knowledge about it and i wish to share that with u all.

i dont mean to downgrade u ladies or anything, but trying to share my knowledge.

A man and his wife had a problem and the man dicided to park out for her, it has been hapenning many time and if it happens the woman will plead to some of his friend to beg him to come back home. it now happen this morning when this man is going out, and he was so angry that he could not control himself, he beat his wife and finally, they took her to hospital, after beating her, many people were blaming him for his action and this guy had to explain what has been happening between them.

a man of God now intervain and said, although it is very bad beating ur wife but still from u said, i think u re right for beating her.

what do u think about the man of God's point?

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Am a lady,I know some women can be extremly provocating,but as man you just bear and rub you mind that this is the cross you will carry till the woman give her life to God and change from her ways.

But there are guyz too who take fun in hiting women.Its like a hobby to them.that wan is a different thing alltogether. In a way It serve some girls right. How? A girl will be dating a guy that beats her up every time even in public, she will still be dying for him and even marry him, all for the sake of love.How do you expect the guy to stop even after marrage except God's intervention. That is why I encourage belivers of the word of God to marry thier kind, so that when the pressure of marrage come the word of God they here daily will help calm them both.

Advice: even if the woman is wrong,she becomes justified when you beat her up, so better not to,not responsible enough.

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wat abt if she didn't change?

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beating is wrong, sit her down and talk sense to her silly brain;which is more than beating

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beating is wrong, sit her down and talk sense to her silly brain which is more than beating.

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Abormination!!!!!

Why i go beat i wife up

I no dey responsible,

Any body who does not take nonsense is not ready for marriage not even courtship.

A man should never, i mean should never beat up his wife for any reason.it doesnt portray him as a gentleman,not even a gentleboy,

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It is one of the greatest forms of barbarism,please abstain!

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No, beating will never solve this problem

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for God sake then find that particular woman who loves to be beaten before sex, the general view is that its wrong to beat/hit anyone especially your wife. its like ure beating urself. if ure pushed to the wall leave the house, walk away, she will come to her sense when u return and u can talk it over. if she does it always for a hobby then YOU ARE TO BLAME YOU MARRIED A NASTY WOMAN.So should u be justified to beat her NO.

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It is very good to beat your woman once in a while maybe at least once in a month or 2 so that she would learn to control her loose tongue. Guys that just act still, would just allow the woman to take control of him and provoke him till thy kingdom come. The beatings tend to help them know they occupy the second place in any home!

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u ladies must be sincere with urself instead of condenming men.

in this same country, we have ladies ho confessed that they purposely frautrate there men to beat them because they dont enjoy sex without being beaten first.

secondly, we guys are people lyk u, some women are trouble makers, they enjoy it and its there hobbie.

well no man enjoy beating his wife only if fraustrated. mind u, it does not mean that he his right, but he has been pushed beyond his limit

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guys who beat girls are only guys in front of  women. they are incomplet guys.

they are sissies.

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That so called man of god is also a man beater!

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This is an unbelievable discussion! Who says that a man has a right to "correct" his wife in the first place? Who says a man knows better? If a man cant compete with a woman on intellectual and verbal level, then he is weak. Using violence is a sign of weakness, not strengt. A person who uses violence to win an argument is not intelligent enough for his opponent.

And that is the case when ur children are involved, also. If u have to beat a child to make him/her obey u, then u r not fit to be a parent. A child is a child, and a parent is an adult. If an adult cant use his brains to control a child, then he is just as silly as the kid.

All the men who justify domestic violence by blaming the women, are loosers. If my husband beat me, I would have to leave him. Not because he is violent, but because he obviously is too silly to have children with.

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Not good to beat your wife, or anyone for that matter. If she cannot be reasoned with and you feel like you have gotten to the point where you feel that you need to hit her, just walk out and leave. No one should ever have that type of control over you.

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NO u should never hit your girl come on you not her daddy sum guys are just wife beaters!!!

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Hmmm speaking on that i'll say its wrong, two wrongs has never made a right, the best is ignorance, if i was in his shoes i'll jst ignore her, guys try this its more painful than beating ur woman,

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At the above reply. . or maybe the mother in law of the wife told him (her son) to do it. . which I have heard before.

Anyways, it's not okay to beat anyone, because you are causing harm to someone.

The reason why parents even beat their children is to correct their children, especially as children cannot always be reasoned with, they don't understand the consequences and are very selfish at times.

I am sure we have all experienced being beaten when your parent is just mad, and it's a different type of beat.

I could never trust a man who laid his hand on me, and to some men, they appreciate the fear, but really that's not what I'm going for in my marriage, I want a unity and balance.

Lastly, the strength of a man cannot be matched with a woman's. A man could beat his wife and kill her. If you punched your friend because he was being a jerk and he went deaf in one ear and was in hospital, would you tell him 'you deserved it?'. It just doesn't make sense.

A man hits another man with a bottle on the head in a bar over an argument the injured man started and causes the man to go blind. . guess who gets taken to court? But, wasn't it the injured man who started it?

Bad tempers are what cause this, and I think everyone MEN & WOMEN should be forced to understand the importance of controlling your temper so that you never act out on it, not to be rash, to be coolheaded instead, responsible adults.

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One thing we must realized that is we ALL have mothers sisters, aunties, and grandmothers, how will we feel seeing them being beat from there spouse.

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why cant u look at it this way, how wil u feel seing ur brother almost dead because of his wife's stress?,

many ladies just enjoy exceeding the limit of a man's patience. if u have been patient all times, they will always try to shw the world that u re not patient enough by making sure thy peace u off,

we all no it is bad and not normal to beat ur wife.

but the question is, why will a man who purposely marry a lady with his money, and after doing all the stress to get her will end up turning her into a punching bag?, b4 a man will lay his hand on his wife, she must hv peaced him off, and u all no dat when some1 get angry, u never can predict what u can do.

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I think the best way 2 seetle any problem in a relationship is dialogue b/w each other. Beating-up ur wife or girlfriend is enough reason 4 her 2 kno u don't luv her. Dis is one of d coolest tip to use when she is calln 4 a fight.Just tell her; Honey am sorry am not in ur mood rite now then calmly look her in d eyes & giv her a kiss and then walk a way 4rm her scene 4 d moment 2 enable her gain her sense of divinity. I learnt this tip 4rm my Dad. It realy works

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One thing we must realized that is we [b]ALL [/b] have mothers sisters, aunties, and grandmothers, how will we feel seeing them being beat from there spouse.

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From my experience, some ladies/women are just trouble makers, and they take the fact that their men will not lay a finger on them for weakness on the man's part. they end up exploiting this fact that in the end they begin to take the man for granted.

I once over-heared two ladies in an eatery discussing this issue and one was saying she deliberately gets on her husband's nerve and nag him to nuts because that way she can know whether the man is seeing another woman, saying that when people are angry they say the truth spontaneously. I tell you I was shocked to my marrows over-hearing this. So in the case of this lady, would her husband be wrong to beat her silly one day just to teach her not to toy with his feelings?

There's another one I witnessed where the woman started the quarrel for no just cause, the man being sensible enough picked up his shirt to leave the house but the woman had locked the doors and hidden the keys as soon as she noticed the man went in to pick his shirt to go out just to avoid her nagging. The woman ended up in the hospital and still got blamed for starting the senseless quarrel in the first place and preventing the man from going out just to ease off his anger.

The truth here is that, some women just like being beaten as confirmed by a lady who once told me that she enjoys sex more after she and her man had just had a fight - can you imagine that? The poster did not tell us what was the cause of the quarrel but for a man of God to have supported the man, I think she must have gone beyond bounds.

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Then who is he going to practice for the Light weight Boxing Championship Match on?

Duh!

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completely outta order man!

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why not break up with her then?

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Beating a woman is very wrong. . . .

there are so many other stuffs you could do to straighten a woman up.

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The way this story goes show that the victim is one hell of a trouble maker to have pushed this guy to the wall to react wrongly.i imagined a pastor buying the idea.that is to show the extent of her trouble.but it still boils down to the fact that he shouldn't have laid his hands on the lady.now the poor guy has become a bully over night.you guys should understand that endurance has limits.i think this woman has excceeded the guy's.

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Its very primitive of men hitting their wives let alone beating her,although women can b very annoying,bt dat dos nt nessecarily mean dat they need 2 b beated b4 they ar corrected.bt you women should at least try & make things rite.Talking things over by matured couple is the best solution 2 resolving quarrel!

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Its very primitive of men hitting their wives let alone beating her,although women can b very annoying,bt dat dos nt nessecarily mean dat they need 2 b beated b4 they ar corrected.bt you women should at least try & make things rite.Talking things over by matured couple is the best solution 2 resolving quarrel!

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No, men that beats their women are homosexuals in the closet. She is not a child or an animal and so should not be treated as such. He was probably pissing her off too but she didn't hit him. No men should ever raise his hand to his woman because you idiots come from us. Would you hit your own mother or let someone else hit her?

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@ igwe usa that na the new sickness wen they rain for town or the sickess they u s a now

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its great hearing ur view 0on this matter, but to me, i still think the man of God is a right if he did not turn that to a habit.

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i am not supporting the wife beaters.But one thing for sure some people are naturally anger.When ever the girl push them to the wall they hit her.Not that they purposely want to do it but just out of annoyance which they cannot control.

So girls just like the beating.I have seen many,Whenever the guy beats them, they will tell you this shows the guy is a man and would not tolerate rubbish.

I am sorry , But sumtimes it is good to beat a woman, But do not make it a habit,Just like the case of this postor,She has push the man to the wall too much.

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Relationship is all about manturity. Though women can be difficult most times. Beating doesnt resolve anything, as adults you can always talk things over.

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it has never been right but we must never forget that women can be very loud mouthed but that does not give the room at bashing at ur wife i feel the best option is to ignore them when they start talking it takes courage my frd it takes courage

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A responsible man shuld neva lay his hand on his wife, no mama wat! Dere ar other way u can deal wit ur wife dat wil hurt her dan turnin her into a punchin bag. We ladies no get hrt

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Most guys who beat their wives are cowards. If they knew that the woman could beat the poo out of them, they won't try that crap o. Although I have no intentions of marriage, if a guy were to lay his hands on me, that just might be his last day on earth. My father once beat my mother and she smashed a stool on his head and he went out cold. She thought she had killed him and panicked. When he finally came round, she told him that next time he laid a hand on her he might not be so lucky. The man thought twice about laying a finger on her after that.

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He is not a man of God. I cannot believe that a man of God will support any kind of violence in the home. There is no justification.

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Don't do that. She's not your dummy.

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