«Home

Is Beauty A criterion in marriage?

there are like 4 serious girls in my life presently, and i have been preparing to settle down but the problem is that 3 are so beautiful but yet i don't connect with them (as in am not that attracted to them) as i am to the 4th one, let me give a little' detail of the 4 :

1st one: so beautiful that i fear if she is not a lesbo, but don't know how to cook, she is submissive though

2nd one: fair and pretty, sexy in shape, know how to cook, homely but dirty

3rd one: so plumby and beautiful, and sexy, submissive but she is demanding like crasy, she has never accepted to cook for me before, she is a graduate

4th one: ughhh, she's dark, has every woman features a man will covet,she is clean, so submissive, educated,she cooks so well, she is the only one who calls and we share birthdays, BUT SHE IS NOT PRETTY

the problem is that i love fair ladies like crasy, but the dARK one has everything a man will need in a woman except the beauty, i cannot imagine waking up on the same bed with a MASQUERADE

IS BEAUTY THE MAIN THING?

please help me ! matured comments please my future is involved here

Avatar
Newbie
16 answers

Are you attracted to the ugly one? if so then go ahead. If not, then leave her alone because we don't want you to come back in the future to tell us that you're so unhappy because you ain't attracted to your wife.

0
Avatar
Newbie

Marriage is a big commitment and trust me even though beauty is very important,it goes beyond this.Though beauty will fade they say but what happens before it does

Have you looked into these ladies background,do you see a future with them,do you think they feel thesame way about you and are they willing to walk to the altar with you,remember it takes two tango and this is a mutual thing. And if it seems none of the 4 girls meet your criteria,it might be a good idea for you to search somewhere else.

0
Avatar
Newbie

[color=#006600][/color]

hi guy,i think u are confuse and carried away by outward appearance,but one thing should know is that marrriage is a life journey between two people and what u need to make the journey interesting that what life has given to u,all u need do is to choose that special person no minding her appearance,becos guy beauty fade away.

0
Avatar
Newbie

what is wrong in having the 4 as wives? they all serve their purpose. bro go ahead  na u dey reign abi na your thing long pass.  awuf running 4 ladies at once. see how u dey confused

0
Avatar
Newbie

Yes, it is a prerequisite.

0
Avatar
Newbie

For the 1st time in history i'll agree with Uju, but only just!

@Poster: From your talk, u obviously love the dark ugly one most, or so i assume, but if she will give u bad dreams with her looks, u best move on.

About the other girls, no matter how fine a girl is, if she's dirty or demanding, or i have to do everything for her as a guy, then they're useless. Reflect on this for 1 hour and i'm sure u wont want to do it for the rest of your life.

0
Avatar
Newbie

You'll be surprised how hard it is to make such a decision. It might appear simple, but trust me, its not easy. The guy's talking about marriage and it for ever.

Now you can teach a girl to cook, teach her to be clean, teach her to act right, but you can never change her looks!!

But then on the other side, some beauty fades . . . So you can understand the guy's delimma.

Poster, I'll advise you to choose who you love the most, and if you love them all equally, choose who loves you the most.

0
Avatar
Newbie

@ Post, My candid advice to you will be that you go for the 4th girl,

beauty would fade someday. Polish her to your taste.

@ Tonye, your type usually end up with monkey as wives,

after messing around with all the beautiful ones in your life,

take Caution my dear!

0
Avatar
Newbie

With the way you "pick and drop chicks", marriage would be so easy for you.

0
Avatar
Newbie

i just got another chic d-day-before-yesterday

gash, \\

girls girls girls everywhere

what a crasy world

0
Avatar
Newbie

Don't get married. Save the girls the heartache.

0
Avatar
Newbie

@mrcracles,

i requested for only matured minds pls,

@vanessa,

babe i did not invite her into my life she got to know my birth date and sent me a msg and she's been like hooking up ever since,

@whitelexi,

i wish you could see the 3 others girls u r asking me to dump, have you beheld ananel b4, they look like one, polished skins

pls help me

0
Avatar
Newbie

It baffles me how some question which are so easy to answer with common sense, are still presented to the public!!

Now i know not everyone has common sense!!

0
Avatar
Newbie

Beauty is not everything,it always fades but a real woman remains.i dnt think the 4th girl is really that ugly i guess not as beautiful as the others if not u would even date her if was like a masquerede like u said but dnt make a big mistake be the 4th gal she'd make u happy.

0
Avatar
Newbie

MARRY ALL OF THEM. PROBLEM SOLVED. YOU CAN ADD ONE OR TWO TO THAT ON NL. good luck. awuf dey run belle as they say.

0
Avatar
Newbie

Oh kiddo, don't make me come and get you and slap you back into reality. Go with your heart, beauti is a temporary asset. The bottom line is she's all WOMAN, look beyond skin colour/beauti.

0
Avatar
Newbie
Your answer
Add image

By posting your answer, you agree to the privacy policy and terms of service.