hi yàll.am new here and would really love to get some advice from you.
ive been married for a couple of months now and i love my husband with all my heart.
he`s a very loving and caring husband but my problem with him is his insecurity
i cannt go to visit friends without his permission and even when he permits me to go,he must take me there and bring me back home. i must not have male friends and must not give my number to even male collegues except if its absolutely necessary. i cannot attend events,parties or shows without him. if my office is organising a party or just a get together, i cannot go because he will not be there and my male collegues will be. i cannot even have neighbourly chats with male neighbours cos he feels they all have designs on me and by being friendly, i will be encouraging them.
he has deleted my family friends numbers from my phone, just becos they are guys and might suddenly wake up and decide that they love me. ive tried so hard to convince him that i will always be faithfull and true to him, all to no avail.
funny enough, i trust him and don`t keep such tabs on him.
i really dnt know what else to say or do to convince him that i have no interest in any other man except him. which why i married HIM in the first place.