«Home

Is He Cheating? Please People Help Me O Abeg:

My boyfriend and I have been together for the past 1 year. We love each other and we do fight and have our ups and down but we trust each other. Last week monday I was at work( I work at nights) and since I normally have lots of free time I called to chat. Half way through the convo he said he has to run and will call me as soon as he gets back. Well he never did and I didnt ask.

But it happened a couple of other times and now I am getting worried that he may be cheating. I knw my boyfriend when I ask him something and its not true he will scream. But I keep asking him why he keeps acting strange and he is very calm.

I need some honest opinions. Because if he is then I am gone. I dont have time for nonsense. Pls people what should I do??

Avatar
Newbie
15 answers

Maybe the guy knows he'll get an ear full when he tells her the "truth" so he'd rather save himself the aggro and disappear. Only he knows why he's doing that.

But then maybe he's playing away. Like others said, just make sure you have your evidence before jumping to conclusions

0
Avatar
Newbie

Dont jump to conclusion yet and besides you dont have any evidence so CHILL

0
Avatar
Newbie

maybe the conversation you guys are having is becoming boring to him, he wouldn't want to say it, but find an excuse to break the conversation off, he doesn't necessarily mean he is cheating

0
Avatar
Newbie

Don't panic, play the fool, just do as if you did not notice anything.

If he continues that way, then visit him one of the nights unexpectedly. if he is cheating on you,you will chatch him red handed.

0
Avatar
Newbie

If you consider yourself a reasonable person and you think he is cheating then he is probably cheating.

0
Avatar
Newbie

he's not cheating, maybe he's just sampling

i beleive in "Innocent until proven Guilty"

0
Avatar
Newbie

LOL yeah I do think its the talking that is killing him no man can talk like us women unless hes gay.

0
Avatar
Newbie

@poster

at wat time do u call him?cos i think u is disturbing d guys sleep,dats y he keeps giving excuses

0
Avatar
Newbie

The OP is too anxious. . . . . .She needs to relax.

Men are poor at cheating. . . .We leave clues, traces and loads of footprints.

SMS, E-mails, Last dialled numbers and many more.

0
Avatar
Newbie

ROTFLMAO!

In the beginning, my friends used to think I'm a fool or something, I didn't even bother explaning. When they saw I was a "fool" and what the "fool" did. . . I went from from being called fool to being Psycho in 10 secs flat. LMAO.

0
Avatar
Newbie

@Stay-Free,

Have you tried talking to him about it? I suggest you set aside a special weekend and you two should thrash it out. Let him know what has been bugging you, and if he is a real man he would listen and and communicate to you. Most men are NOT great communicators, instead they will throw all the blame on the females. But one thing I would advise you NOT to is, and that is jumping to conclusions. I have learnt that things arent always what they appear to be. Just take care of you first and let all other things fall in place. All the best dear!1

0
Avatar
Newbie

I understand and empathise with you. However, this is a very complicated matter.  I will give him the benefit of the doubt. keep monitoring the situation. Ask him why he doesnt answer, or if he does he acts fishy.  Then listen to his explanation and if it makes no logical sense, then something is wrong.

Most men think they are smart. the truth is they "cannot cheat well", My mother always say 'if yo gut tell yo say summin wrong, most times summin wrong"

I just dont understand what some men want, But as I said, dont jump to any conclusion yet.  If he is cheating, trust me, the truth will expose him,

0
Avatar
Newbie

pop up at home one night unannouced during the time you are supposed to be at work.

0
Avatar
Newbie

not solid proof enough,u need good ,strong and solid proof

0
Avatar
Newbie
Your answer
Add image

By posting your answer, you agree to the privacy policy and terms of service.