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Is He Cheating With His Ex?

ok, i woke up one morning and saw a missed call on my phone by 7am,i was shocked at ho wud call so early,so i took my bfs phone just to check if it was his friend or a friend of ours,next thing,the number is that of his ex gf.i ask him y she is calling me and he says i shud call n ask her,next thing argument busts cos am now wondering y he even has her number,iv been with him for two yrs now mind u.so the girl calls me and gives a silly lie that she called me by mistake.i asked how she got my number n she says its an error bla bla that she doesnt know anyone that knows me except my bf.me n him speak the next day to straighten things out,befre then we fought over the issue,he said i was jumping into conclusions and accusing him,he said it wud b wrong for me to think that he has something wit her.few days ago he tells me i shouldnt come over that he wants to be alone.im vexed,cos in as much as we all need space every now and then,i mean,im now thinking he has something to hide,befre he asked to b alone we were ok,no fights,said we loved each other etc,next thing,in the morning,i need to b alone.i strongly feel something is up, y do i suspect the ex got my number from his phone or she saved her number on his, i need feedback plz

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i swear i rili do feel there is something missing here, as far as am concerned his ex could have gotten my number from his phn,wen she called she said to me dat d only person she knows dat knows me is my bf.the issues r not clear.like i said tomoro now d girl will start knocking on the door.im not gonna sit n fight with anoda girl cos of which man?i go carry my big yansh n waka

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lai lai, my papa always warned me never to play 2nd fiddle, lol

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tope o, mo de gba ti e o! O re wa gan ni o

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He might not be cheating but the ex isnt just abt to give up on the guy

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Yawns.

I learnt something on Nairaland today.

E go hear wennnnnnnnn.

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They will never know what they have until they lose it.

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Galz?

Alwayz imagining thingz.

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Then he is an , infact his Bottom need to be dumped if that is the case. yeye boy

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Sometimes guys love the drama.

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Lol . . .the poster is just doing shakara ni jare

but honestly is the bf a lil slow or what? i wud have expected him to take charge of the whole situation by callin the ex n tell her str8 not call his gf again.

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yeah that's wrong, the ex shldnt have called her but is that cause for a fight? She's going to throw 2 yrs away because of a random error. She's going be the loser at the end of the day, the ex would only be too glad to replace her.

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But why wud ur ex be calling ur gf, not once or twice

if u 2 are still friends . . that doesnt mean she shud calling her, for what reasons?

I accpet that she took the whole thing to far but she stated this isnt the first time that has happened the guy shud have warned the ex to stop calling her, if it was the other way around i bet u guys wud have assumed she was cheating . . . .no?

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I'm good friends with my exes, i dont believe a broken relationship should equal lost friendships, we were friends before dating so we're only reverting to prior status before the relationship.

Women should relax, the guy was with her for 2 yrs no problems . . . why is she fighting? And she says the guy shld come begging? For what?

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women and their perennial need to fight.

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Nothing wrong when a man stays friends with his EX, IMO, there is something wrong, when a man begins to lie about his relationship with his EX. I like honesty sha, just me.

It looks as though, ur boo is NOT straight forward with you BUT I suggest that you listen to your guts. Follow your instincts.

If he dumps you for this EX, let him go there is not much that you can do. What will be will be.

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am not gonna beat around the bush.im not scared of getting dumped.il speak to him and call it off.if he is serious about me he wud come back and beg me,if he doesnt come back begging then that will be it finito. its an ex.how much longer will i sit around before she walks thru d door? i put this online to see if im just thinking straight and perhaps someone can understand my own point of view.

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If You think he's cheating . . . . he prolly is and besides an Ex doesn't hang around

like that unless there's something to it but fighting and nagging doesn't help it.

If You think he's not convincing enuff and You want to 'bounce' . . . Then fine.

Otherwise . . . .Talk it over wiff him amicably and sort things out.

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So, a stranger calls your fone, then you find out it's not a stranger but your bf ex then you argue, then you make up, then he wants space-----if all that is in check then all i can do is LOL (drama) !!!   What exactly do you want someone to tell you? It's either he is or he isn't cheating, trick is unless one of them fess's up you're left speculating. So what are you going to do about it?

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i dont think im taking things too far, i dont want to be dumb n just play a fool.we had a fight over her befre,like a yr ago,i saw txt btwn them n he claimed she was helping him wit a job abi na cv.he deleted her number,now few days d number is back.i dont know this girl n have ni biz with her,y wud she call me all of a sudden.if a guy is cheating there is no way he will confess,

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do i get time for woman palava now? NO

ok, i will be right back

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Don't You think You are taking things too far as 'Your' man said?

Fighting him isn't a way to get the truth about his present r/s wiff his Ex.

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