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Is It A Crime For A Girl To Ask A Guy Out On A Date?

To me I don't think it's a crime. Your opinions are needed!!!

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A girl should be bold enough to go for what she wants.

some men will not just notice you, so you may have to wait for ever for the guy you want or you will have to settle for the one that comes, which might not be your 1st choice.

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I don't think theres anything wrong with asking a guy out , especially if he seems nice

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It's definitely not a crime. However, I have witnessed a lot of relationships and human interaction, and truth be told, it would be better to just catch the guy's attention and hope that he asks you out. The best way to do so, if you are genuinely interested in him, is to just be his friend. If you two feel the same way toward each other, he will most likely ask you on a date. To ask him out just because would be a waste of time. Honestly, if a girl asked me out on a date, I would decline, as I know a relationship would not work between us.

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@poster

1 It is NOT A CRIME!! as long as you like the guy just get his attention.if u have that long enough he can ask you first, if not ask for the date, the woman in control way, if he is hesitant.He is not the guy for you.so you move on!!

2 point is you can by your conduct/non verbal statement make guy ask you for a date, then think it was his idea (ab initio)

Its all about Technique, if the none verbal doesnt work, use my number one suggestion!!

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Hello HR hotness,

I like ur opinion, u r straightand frank in ur speaking. lets share more idea together u can im with my yahoo id luvjossy@yahoo.com or better still 08039730664.

My first love acctually asked me out way back in secondary school though she was older than me, i feel like a prince in the whole class. infact i am waiting.

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i hate raving with passion. i dey london

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now wait a minute is method man and doyin d same person?

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ko si big deal my luv!

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# topic

Speaking from experience.

Back in the days as a youngin, This chick in my secondary school wrote me a letter basically asking me out.

I was so stunned that I was lost for what to say. I didnt reply and prayed she would just go away.

The next day after school, she cornered me and asked me out again, My mouth went dry, and I did not know what to say. Did I state that she was butt ugly & I didnt like her.

I have not had a repeat experince but if De javu should happen now, I still will not know what to do.

What I'm trying to say is, I think its a beautiful idea for women to ask men out, but guys need some orientation on how to handle such situations and not foolishly exploit the women. Cos a lot of chicks go suffer if this catches on.

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The attention is for both of you to become friends first and if get to know that the feeling isnt mutual then don't bother asking him out naa

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well tope if i were like in a club and im dancing as i love to do and he doesnt notice not once(which is pretty hard) then there is more fish in the sea. he obviously aint my type.

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even if u finally get his attention he might still not have feelings for u,so y make a fool out of yourself?

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it is not a crime if a girl asks a guy out on a date. but personally i wouldnt deal with a guy like dat. i got no tyme for no brotha you aint man enuff to ask me out. it just shows he isnt the kind of guy who go gets what he wants.

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of course it's not a crime, ha lol, but really I can just imagine myself, going up to a guy and quote all that their line, :

I 'd be like: " hey baby, whts up? . . . is this seat taken? U know u look beautiful hot erm. . . handsome, can I get ur number?"

haaaaa, lmao . . . I'd like to see a guys face d day I would try that! If I would have enough liver!

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Only if you know for sure that the guy likes you and is just too shy to tell you. If you ask any guy out on a date, he will always say yes whether he likes you or not. If he doesn't like you, he will dip his fingers in the cookie jar, string you along for a bit, stall you, enjoy the honey and leave you. So no, I don't advice any chick to ask a guy out unless they are 100% certain that the guy likes them and is too shy to ask them out.

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saucy--ok.'ll try

tec--lol

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@ beauteous

its an italian meal ooo

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lol---in that case,alcohol is outt'a d ques

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@ topic

I don't think it's a crime but personally, I'd rather be asked out by the guy just cos I feel like I'm worth pursuing.

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It has nothing to do with age.

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dats it. . .it doesnt really matter to me, we might av age on our side but not evry1 is old enuff to handle situations

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its not a crime sha,but dats if u asked the matured ones out.all dis imature ones will end up calling d girl CHEAP

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If women want to ask men out, then that their life.

I personally think this will give man more of an advantage.

Lazy men and those that lack confidence in themselves want this.

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You want to criticize me but at the end this is true.

I said women have more responsibility in a marriage. Not should.

Even women that demand equality it will end up like that.

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LOL

How old are you?

If thats how u measure ur worth, then arguing with u is pointless

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If you are willing to sacrifice (slave) for a man, seh you might as well ask im out.

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Please like I said call whatever you want but hey I will never ask a guy out.

I will lose my last name

I will suffer to raise the children most likely 24/7.

I will responsible for making sure my husband and children eat.

I will be responsible for most of the cleaning at home

I will have a full time job too.

Naija men feel it okay to cheat as long as money is coming in. I will not allow.

Women give up everything in a marriage.

And you want me to approach them.

Yeah right.

Then he has to be man enough to approach me.

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You hav no idea what that means. . .

if u really knew your worth, u wldnt waste your time playing childish games and creating false impressions

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Hello How are you i am Kelvin i am new here i saw you message i just want to say i thank i like you

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I will never ask a guy out.

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I actually encourage it, guys can be really slow sometimes. . .

If u see something u like and want, go out and get it!

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is dat an italian meal?i guess no

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Na crime for NAIJA BABES O !

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Doyin, your own cheapness don pass the level of stinginess. . ah ah!!

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