To me I don't think it's a crime. Your opinions are needed!!!
It's definitely not a crime. However, I have witnessed a lot of relationships and human interaction, and truth be told, it would be better to just catch the guy's attention and hope that he asks you out. The best way to do so, if you are genuinely interested in him, is to just be his friend. If you two feel the same way toward each other, he will most likely ask you on a date. To ask him out just because would be a waste of time. Honestly, if a girl asked me out on a date, I would decline, as I know a relationship would not work between us.
1 It is NOT A CRIME!! as long as you like the guy just get his attention.if u have that long enough he can ask you first, if not ask for the date, the woman in control way, if he is hesitant.He is not the guy for you.so you move on!!
2 point is you can by your conduct/non verbal statement make guy ask you for a date, then think it was his idea (ab initio)
Its all about Technique, if the none verbal doesnt work, use my number one suggestion!!
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My first love acctually asked me out way back in secondary school though she was older than me, i feel like a prince in the whole class. infact i am waiting.
Speaking from experience.
Back in the days as a youngin, This chick in my secondary school wrote me a letter basically asking me out.
I was so stunned that I was lost for what to say. I didnt reply and prayed she would just go away.
The next day after school, she cornered me and asked me out again, My mouth went dry, and I did not know what to say. Did I state that she was butt ugly & I didnt like her.
I have not had a repeat experince but if De javu should happen now, I still will not know what to do.
What I'm trying to say is, I think its a beautiful idea for women to ask men out, but guys need some orientation on how to handle such situations and not foolishly exploit the women. Cos a lot of chicks go suffer if this catches on.
of course it's not a crime, ha lol, but really I can just imagine myself, going up to a guy and quote all that their line, :
I 'd be like: " hey baby, whts up? . . . is this seat taken? U know u look beautiful hot erm. . . handsome, can I get ur number?"
haaaaa, lmao . . . I'd like to see a guys face d day I would try that! If I would have enough liver!
Only if you know for sure that the guy likes you and is just too shy to tell you. If you ask any guy out on a date, he will always say yes whether he likes you or not. If he doesn't like you, he will dip his fingers in the cookie jar, string you along for a bit, stall you, enjoy the honey and leave you. So no, I don't advice any chick to ask a guy out unless they are 100% certain that the guy likes them and is too shy to ask them out.
Please like I said call whatever you want but hey I will never ask a guy out.
I will lose my last name
I will suffer to raise the children most likely 24/7.
I will responsible for making sure my husband and children eat.
I will be responsible for most of the cleaning at home
I will have a full time job too.
Naija men feel it okay to cheat as long as money is coming in. I will not allow.
Women give up everything in a marriage.
And you want me to approach them.
Then he has to be man enough to approach me.