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Is It A Good Idea To Live Together As A Prelude To Eventually Getting Married?

although conventional African wisdom might disagree, i think it is highly essential.i just got out of a collosally catastrophic relationship with a real grade A jezebel. it had all the makings of a bad naija home video script and i feel like such a sucker for ever proposing marriage et al. it took just 2 months of co-habiting for the real-she to come out.women, or men, can only pretend for so long before the truth must come out in their actions.

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interestin spin u hav on this angle, and i agree it aint exactly the best 4rm a ladies perspective , but believe me, i would still insist on doing this again before i eventually settle down, better be sorry than divorce after 3 months of marital brickbats

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u're definitely right, beides if not 4 cohabitation, how would @poster knowthe real her that later showed up, he would have been fooled into marriage only to regret it when it is past time, 4 me, i find living together as a prelude 2 eventually marry the best.

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co-habitin b4 marriage is essential cos its always different when u aint living together.it makes it easier for whoever to knw their partners on daily basis

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I see nothing wrong in co-habiting, between consenting adults.

Times have moved on, though a lot of folk will always bleat "it's against our tradition". But, if tradition is going to be used as a basis for saying co-habiting is wrong, then I'd say over 90% of folk are breaking tradition - having sex before marriage, smoking, drinking alcohol and a raft of other things that "go against tradition".

To me, it reeks of double-standards, a selective "breaking of tradition".

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if she is not ur wife or sister, wats d point of co-habiting? to see compatibility? if u are not compatible she goes 2 some other person n u co-habit with another person? its just not right. second bass jare

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for me i think it is important but due to tradition let us just make it a weekend thing Friday to Sunday or Monday morning.

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Hmmm, u want to know what she thought of u?

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